you and bf /gf argue. who takes iniciative to make things right?^^

Actually it depends on the situation. If the other one knew that he did something wrong, it's automatic that he will be the one to make the first move. But if I am aware that I did a mistake then I will be the one to say sorry. But most of the time both of us will make the initiative to make thing right and end up the fight.

I am a person who has complete control over anger. We do get into arguements, but i am the one who aopologises. I just hate to see the sad expression on my wife's face. I just go and hug her and tell her i love her. She does resist and pushes me away but she calms down soon.

With my past boyfriends, I would never apologize first. In fact, most of the time I never apologized. They were the ones who had to admit they were wrong. Now, that's not the case with my current boyfriend. Both me and my bf are stubborn and set in our ways so when we argue, we both this we're right. But usually, I'm the one who has to break down and apologize first. I usually say something like I'm sorry I hurt you or I don't want to fight. Then he apologizes and usually admits that he was the one in the wrong. Most of the time he also adds a present with his apology. Thank goodness we don't argue often. lol.

Hmm...usually we both do, we both apologize, for the way we talked each other, but there are times when i am expecting him to apologize, if it was his fault, or when it is my fault, i go and apologize, that seems fair for me, that`s why we have an balanced relationship.