prefer be in a relationship with heart connection or physical connection?^^

Anyone can have a relationship with a physical connection. It can be a meaningless relationship as well. Having a relationship with a heart connection is a better one to have. If you aren't connected at the heart, you are not connected at all.

I prefer a relationship with the heart because sometime you've gotta get bored of all the kissing and the making out for a while, and then you'd both want to chill and sit next to each other and talk and stuff... and if you love with the heart you'd feel comfortable doing that, if you only love for the physical bits then I'd have no idea what I'd talk to him about.. And I feel good when a guy is comfortable with just sitting next to me because then he's not only with me just because of my looks :3 hmm

Wow. I don't even know how to answer this..... chemistry is not divided into 'physical' or 'heart'. When you have it with someone, it bleeds into both, everything and the line blurs until there is none. If you're talking about a lasting deep relationship, you have to have an emotional connection or the physical is worth nothing. Especially for women, we are not like faucets, you cannot turn us on and off with a switch. I'm telling you, you could be the hottest guy on the planet and if I'm not feeling it, I'm just not, and that's how it is. No chemistry, no physical attraction. Sorry. I think when you love someone, really love someone - in every way you can love a person, then the attraction is there. Look around you, at the couples you know. Do you think that every single couple is the most beautiful couple ever? I bet you those two people each think the other one is the most beautiful person ever... if they are in love. It's all subjective, really, and perception.

I prefer a relationship with heart connection but no physical. Love comes from the heart. We can feel it and once love is present, everything will fall in place naturally. There isn't a love without being physical. It's a matter of time and mood involved. I can't image a love with physical but no heart connection at all? How is that relationship going to last? It's almost like a beautiful decorated house on the outside, so glamorous but it's actually empty with no furnitures at all, facing the walls all by ourself. That is not love to me.

If i will enter into a relationship it would be with heart connection, meaning i do really love the guy and not for physical thing only. I do like also the combination of the two but it must start with the heart then followed by physical.

could I have both physical and hear connection ?:D. sweetlovefreve what you say it's true, you can't have a relationship with someone who doesn;t attract you at all so I agree what you, in a certain measure looks are important.. I mean for me he doesn;t necesarely have to be extremly beautiful but he has to have that special something that would make him important to me. it's about atitude and self confidence. in what concernes looks first of all he has to take good care of himself, as I said I don;t want him to be extremly beautiful, simply to be normal.

I always prefer in a relationship with heart connection. And I always believe in this. I think if you are truly connected with a person with through heart feelings then you can feel everything. And you always become truthful to someone in any relation. So I always believe in heart connected relationship.

Any or both is ok for me. Thats my opinion in the matter. Happy mylotting.

Can i have my cake and eat it? Both are necessary for me,i think.If you do wanna me choose one and there isn't a compromised choice,i would prefer heart connection.Only in this way can we get soul communication.She know me,i know her.She is my best friend,who is the one you could seat on a porch,swing with,never saying a word,and then walk away feeling like that was the best conversation you've had.As for physical connection,if i could not control my desire,just do it myself.

loving a person with looks is not a big deal for me..try to think of this..if he is having a looks and don't even know how to love you in real and not to be responsible for both of you what will happen?now a days you cannot lived in this world just by hugging and kissing and not by all love..you must work and eat for you both able to work and plan for your future..i prefer both..but i have to choose..by heart..

Listen, i think that if you love with the heart, the physical attraction is just a matter of time, and not that much time. You start to see the physical deffects as particular signs that make him special, and suddly you wake up near the most nicest person you ever been with