Walk a Mile in My Shoes

@gantwick (849)
United States
September 27, 2010 7:13am CST
I sometimes wonder why people work at jobs they hate. I love working. Before I was laid off, I looked forward each day to going to work. Maybe I didn’t make a big impact on the world, but I felt that what I did actually made a difference for somebody. And since I was laid off, I still face each temporary job with the hope that I can do something to help somebody. Believe me, the things I’ve done have been far from glamorous. Indeed, some of the people I’ve come in contact with seem to look down on me condescendingly, and a few have been downright contemptuous because of some perceived superiority that they have over me. Still, I smile and treat them as I would like to be treated – with kindness and respect. And I have taken on a new level of appreciation for those who also work in low-paying positions. Sure, I don’t go out to eat as often as I used to, but when I do, I still manage to leave a decent tip, because I know how much that means – not just in terms of extra money, but also to let the person know that what they do is truly appreciated. Have you ever thought about what your life would be like if your roles were reversed with the people you see every day? If you see me running a cash register, or flipping burgers, or ushering you to your luxury skybox, would you consider trading places with me and letting me see the same smile that I am giving you? I love my job – how about you?
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• United States
27 Sep 10
I know some people that do not like their job, even though they make really good money at it. In fact, that is the only reason that they have the job that they do - the money. If it did not pay as well as it did, then they would be doing something else and probably be a lot happier. I think it is wonderful when someone really enjoys the job that they have, and I do not look down on anyone for what they do, especially if it does not pay a lot of money but definitely benefits other people. In fact, I tend to look up to these people more for doing what they enjoy and helping others in the process, because they are happy rather than being miserable just to make money.
@gantwick (849)
• United States
28 Sep 10
I agree. I taught school for a couple of years, and one thing I found out quickly was that by befriending the janitor, I got a lot of things done more quickly. I had some nice desks and one of the cleanest classrooms because I truly appreciated the maintenance staff and they knew it.
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• United States
28 Sep 10
A long time ago, I dated someone that was a janitor. There were people that looked down on him (and me for dating him), because they didn't think that his job was "good enough". The thing was, he was really good at his job, and he actually enjoyed cleaning. I thought that was great, especially since a lot of people complain so much about their jobs - he was glad to go to work and I would often hear him happily singing to himself when I went to see him at his job. I think it is ironic that the people that looked down on him for doing something that he liked and was good at were miserable in their own jobs, which were (in their minds) so much better than his.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
5 Jun 11
I don't have a glamorous or high paying job. I don't love it, but I don't hate it either. It pays my bills and that is good enough for me. I try to face each day with a smile on my face. What is it they say? "Fake it till you make it." Sometimes the smile I give my customers might be the only smile they will see all day.