to love vs to be loved

@harry89 (2330)
India
September 27, 2010 8:51am CST
would u like 2 love som1 or being loved by sum1
13 responses
@coollady9 (143)
• Indonesia
27 Sep 10
I would like to love some1 and being loved by some1. I like both of them. My experiences say that to love some1 makes me feel so wonderful. And being loved by some1 makes me proud of myself. Love is something beautiful. When some1 loves you especially the one you love, oh that's very incredible, unbelievable. that will make you happy n when you know there's some1 love you but you don't love him/her it makes you disappointed.
@harry89 (2330)
• India
27 Sep 10
yea, its the choice of all the people here
• India
27 Sep 10
yes. LOVE is great feeling. especially when the person u love gies it back its the greatest feeling. but when not getting back... well i keep silent. no comments.
• India
28 Sep 10
Just as he said it would be better to have both. To love someone is a really cool and exciting experience but it may not always lead to sweet results. Being loved by someone is also really nice also. It feels nice to know that there is always someone who takes care of you and wants you. I feel great when i am loved by someone. I think that's the reason why girls love attention so much. Cheers!
@harry89 (2330)
• India
28 Sep 10
ok, i appreciate your response
@chillpill90 (1936)
27 Sep 10
I am going to sound really selfish but i would rather be loved. although feeling in love is an amazing feeling it also makes you feel sad sometimes when you can't be with them all the time you want or you just want to share everything with them. I love it when my partner shows their love for me. it makes me feel so so special =]
@harry89 (2330)
• India
27 Sep 10
thats not selfish, even i feel the same
• India
27 Sep 10
i prefer i would like to love someone rather than being loved
@harry89 (2330)
• India
27 Sep 10
ok, i appreciate your thinking
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
27 Sep 10
It is really bad and sad to be loved or to love someone. When you are being loved, you are a very lucky person. When you are loving someone, you are really suffered. A complete LOVE is from both parties. Husband and Wife are loving each other. The parents and their children are loving each other. and so on. To be happy, we must build up a both parties' love.
@harry89 (2330)
• India
27 Sep 10
yea, you are right
@manish48 (36)
• United States
27 Sep 10
I think, Being Loved by Someone would be a very Great feeling. It feels so good when you realise that someone is there,always thinking about you. The life of todays people has become so busy that no one has time to think or care about anyone else. In this scenario, if you find a person who loves you, then i would seriously say that you are privilleged.Its also said that You should always Marry somewhone...Who Loves you , Not Whom you Love.
@harry89 (2330)
• India
27 Sep 10
yea, well said manish
@maebelle (190)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
well ive better choose both... being loved by someone is flattering but its much like heaven if the one you love loves you back..:)
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Sep 10
it`s hard..i wanna love someone and she loves me too
@harry89 (2330)
• India
27 Sep 10
ok, thats nice
• United States
27 Sep 10
I would like to know how both feels because it's a beautiful thing to be loved and having the feeling of loving someone.
@harry89 (2330)
• India
27 Sep 10
yea,but i think every1 wants a person they love
@misheli (552)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
I like both, I like to love someone and I like to be loved by someone. I don't like to love a person that doesn't love me and I don't want to be loved by a person if I don't love him. It's better if you have both.
@harry89 (2330)
• India
27 Sep 10
yea, i liked your answer
@Skade24 (750)
• Romania
27 Sep 10
I would like both, because where is the satisfaction if is just one of these 2? But if i have to choose one, is to be loved, because i suffered enough until now, i know i`m selfish, but sometimes you have to be.
• India
27 Sep 10
Well Love is a real good feel. energy. emotion. i feel TO BE LOVED is a bit ahead over LOVE SOMEONE.of course loving some one is not anyway inferior. when i love some one, and i feel a sense of purpose, it gives a good confident, meaning, for my life, but the same time the person i love, shows, reciprocate its more joy. more confidence, more bliss.
@harry89 (2330)
• India
27 Sep 10
yes you are right, to be loved is greatest thing
• India
27 Sep 10
I prefer going with the person who loves me first of all LOVE it is a great feeling which cannot be described love requires lots and lots of time as time helps you to understand you and your loved one properly.....always go for the one who loves you as after some time you will realize that whom you love is no more yours but the one who loves you will always be yours....