Do you ever say "LOVE" to your parents???

@xtmlove (402)
China
September 27, 2010 10:09am CST
When we talk about "love", maybe the first person that you want to say is your partner. Yes, we often said the word to our partners, but little of us said it to our parents. As we known, parents given the love to the kid is selfless. We should say love to them too! As the years have passed, we grown up as a adult, but our parents are growing old gradually. However, most of people ignore to express their grateful to their parents. Could you have difficult to say love to them? What's your opinion on this question?
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@wiwa05 (230)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
yeap everyday! And I think, we ALL SHOULD everyday before it's too late. Life is too short to be wasted so whenever you can, don't miss a day without telling them how much you love them! ^_^
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
17 Apr 12
I think we should express our love in our life to our love ones.
@xtmlove (402)
• China
28 Sep 10
I have the same feeling as you. Life is too short for us, we shouldn't leave a lifelong regret to express our love to our parents.
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@wiwa05 (230)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
yes, indeed! So as long as we still have time, we shouldn't waste any of it! ^_^
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• Vietnam
27 Sep 10
I love my parents. But I find it hard to say I love them.Probably by way of parental education. I know they love me but they never tell me that words. I also never tell them so. Probably we just know underground. They know I love them. And I know they love me. Many times I want to tell them I love them. But it's difficult. I wish I had been taught to say so from childhood.
@xtmlove (402)
• China
28 Sep 10
Yes, I know many parents love the kids, and the kids also love to them. But because some reasons that they don't say love to each other. As I know, some young people don't understand the selfless love from their parents. Maybe they lack communicating face to face with each other. After the young realize the love, sometime is to late to express their emotion to their parents. So we shouldn't leaving a lifelong regret to express our love to our parents.
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• Vietnam
28 Sep 10
Thank for your advice.
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@banban (601)
• China
28 Sep 10
One of the greatest loves in the world is the love from our parents. They gave our births, care us, and protect us. We should respect them, as well as love them. When watching TV series of USA, I can often hear that "I love you, dad" or "Love you, mom", etc. They easily express their feelings to their parents. As far as I know, Chinese people don't say "love" to their parents easily, though they do love them. It's just too shy for them to spell the word out.
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@xtmlove (402)
• China
28 Sep 10
Yes, I'm a Chinese too. I have the same feeling as you.
@BrittneeD (350)
• United States
28 Sep 10
My family tells each other we love each other pretty much everyday if we leave for the night we say I love you, when we say good bye on the phone and have not seen each other all day we say i love you. My boyfriends family never says it but his best friend is much likke my family they say it when they go to sleep and on the phone and when they say good bye I don't know if most families do or don't but I do know some who do and some who don't.
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• India
27 Sep 10
Well , I love my parents and I do same I LOVE you to them... I think that there is no fault in saying that
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@xtmlove (402)
• China
28 Sep 10
Yes, I also think so. You've done a good job. Please keep this grateful spirit.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
8 Mar 12
Most times we do not express the feelings we have to the loved ones and to our parents. I think it is great to convey the messages that we love them and also to make them feel happy and make them feel that we do care for them. I think most people will feel happy when they feel that they have someone to love and likes to be loved.
@yeyelee (370)
• China
28 Sep 10
We love them,but we seldom say love to them,i guess.Sometimes maybe we would think they are so nagging and annoying.If you're really shy and have difficulty to say this word to your parents,just do something to them.Everytime when you go home,don't forget to purchase a little gift for them.when you're home,try to make some dishes you could for them,they would be happy and feel you love.
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@xtmlove (402)
• China
28 Sep 10
Yes, we can do some other things to express our love to them.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
28 Sep 10
I love my parents very much. And i loved my life partner also. My parents loved me. In their old age i never ignore them &A i loved them.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
28 Sep 10
Hi, I do love my parents alot,but I never expressed out in words by saying "I LOVE YOU" to them directly. So what I will be doing is buy them present or treat them for meal when I go back to my hometown. I have been leaving away from my parents for the past 15 years,but we still have a close relationship. We always keep in touch with each other. I am very grateful to my parents for bringing me up and now I have my own family and I knew that they still love me alot. Even my mother show her love to my son.I am very happy to be their daughter. During my childhood, I have a happy life,my parents fulfill all my needs, especially my father, he will buy anything for me as long as I like it. I do hope my son will LOVE me and always have me in his heart.
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@xtmlove (402)
• China
29 Sep 10
Thanks for your response. Yes, I agree with what you said. Action speaks louder than words, we should take actions to show our love to them in daily life. You've done a good job. I believe that you are also in your son's heart, just as your parents in your heart. Good luck!
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
For me not in person in the letter only because I feel not easy to say but the know i love them showing it in them i more expressive in action.
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
28 Sep 10
Hi xtmlove, yes i do love my parents. But i never expressed my love to them. May be to my mom i told that you are so nice to us when she do favour to me. I am very thankful and greatful to my parents that raise us in a good mannered. Actually ours is a joint family so we have many members in our family. The love and affection of my family members i never forget. Now after become an adult i will try to help them out if they require anything from me. Since i am women i will take care of my family also my inlaws and also my parents. My parents never ask for a help but i will talk to them and ask them if any thing they require. And i pray god to give good health and prosperous to my parents. Other than this how can i express my love to them, if i tell also it is very less. I will tell to myself when i am there with the god that i am thankful to you my mom and dad that i am being here today in this wonderful world. THROUGH THIS DISCUSSION I WANT TO TELL MY MOM THAT I MISS YOU DAD I MISS YOU. Very good topic. Have a great day/night.
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@xtmlove (402)
• China
29 Sep 10
Thanks for you response. Through the words you wrote, I think you are a person that you knew exactly what is gratefulness. You've done a good job. Good luck!
• India
28 Sep 10
Ya I also love my parents very much. But its like little hard to tell them love.
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• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Hi. Yes, I say I love you to my parents and even to my sister and brother. I think it's very nice to say it and hear it. Life is too short, nobody knows how the future goes so it's better for them to know that no matter what, I love them.
• Indonesia
28 Sep 10
yeah just like what you're said before it's too hard for me to say love,worst than that i really can open my mouth to said it in front of my parent,i dont know why this happen to me but in really i love them altough they ever mad to me hit me because im bad and etc,but they give much of comfortable in this life,the only thing i can say in my heart is i love them but i dont want to express it
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
yah of course, they are the one whom we credit our selves.................
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
28 Sep 10
I only have one parent left. i lost my father when i was justa teenager. Even though i am an adult now, i still say I love you to the parent I still have in my life.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
28 Sep 10
Hey I never say love to my parents. Because I think I am a very shy person and also feel shy to say this to my parents. But really it is also my desire to say to my parents I love you. But I don't know that how can I say this to them can you help me.
• China
28 Sep 10
To be honest,I have had ever said "LOVE" for my parents.It does not stand that I don't love them.I love them more deeply than everyone else.When I face them,I could not say a word like"love".
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