would you be with someone that loves you but you dont love?^^

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Portugal
September 27, 2010 12:37pm CST
hi guys^^ would you be with someone that loves you but you dont love?^^ about me i cant bcs i cant pretend feelings. also how would i be with guy that loves me and i dont? would be too unfair. if the boy loved me and asked me to go on a date and i didnt love noone i could just go out and see if i fell in love but be in a relationship without love i cant. what about you guys?^^ please share^^
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• United States
27 Sep 10
I couldn't see myself with someone I don't love. I mean, I would go out on a couple dates, but I can't be in a relationship with someone if I can't really say i love them. I'm pretty up front and honest when it comes to expressing myself, so I have no problem letting her know 'it's now like that', but if she's mad persistant, then I'll have to back away from her... slowly lol
• United States
18 Jul 16
No. It was like that with my first boyfriend. I liked him but it was never a love thing. Once I realized it would never go further than liking him I broke up with him. He was in love with me. He had asked me at some point to marry him but I turned it down one because we hadn't been dating long and I still wasn't sure about us and we were only 16.