if you bf/gf was a drugs addict would you leave him/her?^^

Portugal
September 27, 2010 2:28pm CST
hi guys^^ if your bf/gf was a drugs addict would you leave him/her?^^ about me i wouldnt leave him. i would help him and be there and show him i love him and he doesnt need drugs ^^ that whatever his problems are i will always be by his side and wont let him take those bad things^^ i know is a hard situation and is not easy to help these people but i would help my bf. i couldnt leave him bcs i would feel i could had help him and i didnt. i would do all i could to help him^^ what about you guys?^^ please share^^
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@dawnald (84257)
• Shingle Springs, California
27 Sep 10
An addict? No. Using? And won't/can't stop? I'm out of there at the point where it becomes hurtful to me and especially the children.
@dawnald (84257)
• Shingle Springs, California
28 Sep 10
No they don't, and it's sad, but protecting other people comes first.
• Portugal
4 Oct 10
yes^^ i understand what you mean^^ you mean that even they dont do it with meaning to hurt someone protect others is first sure^^ and children seeing that would be too bad ^^ anyway you would have to find other way to help him maybe take him to rehab or ask a friend of him to help him^^ leave that person alone wouldnt be a good idea so before leave at least you would tell someone to help him right?^^
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@dawnald (84257)
• Shingle Springs, California
4 Oct 10
I would do what I could to help him, or to get him to help himself, but the childrens' safety would come first.
@ravend (660)
• Malta
4 Oct 10
I would, however depending on how long the relationship had been going, I might give the support after we break up.
• Bulgaria
28 Sep 10
full agree with misalax .first talk with her/him and make refab if he/she wanna.if yes make.if no.. leave him becouse what do you can for him afterall bf/gf wan't help himself.
• Portugal
29 Sep 10
aw i see what you mean^^ you say that only rehab can help more^^ yes you are right rehab can help but also care can help too^^ love is the thing that can help people more^^ if you show to that person you love him and will always be there and be very caring and sweet and talk with him and say he is acting wrong by taking that maybe the person soon sees what is doing to his life. sure wont be easy but we must insist and love the person. love is powerful and can really help someone^^ thanks for your answer^^ aw and thanks for your first discussion to comment is mine^^
@sender621 (14923)
• United States
28 Sep 10
I would give my love and support to this person. Leaving them would not be a solution to their problems. It would be a difficult journey, but life is precious. It would be worth the effort to ease a loved one from addiction.
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
I will definitely leave him. I do believe that if someone is addicted to something, even if he/she change in due time, there is a possible way to get back on that addiction. Drud addicts also do not think well. Their thinking is different to the normal ones.
@Skade24 (750)
• Romania
27 Sep 10
First i would talk with him and i`d say to drop it, because is not good for him, and i would give him all the help he need to give up on drogs, but if he would stii do this, i would let him go, and broke-up with him.
@misalax (307)
• Ireland
27 Sep 10
I won't, and like you I'd try to help him as much as I can, hell I'd send him to rehab if that's what it takes. But when there comes a point where he doesn't even want to help himself get over it, that's the time I'd leave.