What to do when you're dead?

@sweet_pea (3322)
Philippines
September 27, 2010 10:12pm CST
Well actually there is nothing we can do when we're dead. The question is for the people whom we left behind, what to do with our dead body. Do they already know what to do? Have you told them, how do you want to be laid to rest? I already told my husband when I'm dead to donate all my useful organs to an organ institute. I want to help others live after my death. I want to be cremated within 24 hours. The wake can start after my cremation, with just my happiest picture and my urn to look at. I want them to remember me when I was alive and i don't want them to see me in a casket cold and dead. It always gives me the creeps when I have to attend a wake or a funeral. A day of wake is enough for me. I don't want to prolong it in a week so they can start moving on with their lives. Well I hope my husband would listen otherwise I'll haunt him to my grave.
2 responses
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
I don't even want to entertain this thought. It's just too grim. I'm a happy person, you know. :P
@sayariza (146)
• Indonesia
28 Sep 10
do you tell your wishes to your husband?
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
We talk a lot. And it was once a topic of discussion. In my country, specially in the provinces, a burial is a time when people can gamble (which i don't like) and the last time i've attended one, they have videokes and singers singing happy song on the wake. I just don't get it.