Do you feel your love is stronger?
By LaLa Leo
@mrscallands22 (2852)
United States
September 28, 2010 11:59am CST
So... I was on my facebook earlier and I'm one of those types that "like" a whole lot of pages lol because some are hilarious to me while others are philosophical in a sense. And I came across one that was generally talking about loving someone more than they love you. I know a lot of people that experience this in their relationships where they feel like the other person in the mix doesn't have the same/similar or just as strong feelings. Do you feel like in your relationship that you love your lover more than they love you or care for you or about your feelings??
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7 responses
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
1 Oct 10
I was in this kind of a situation in the past. However, those are things that were in the past and I'm not in that kind of a relationship anymore. The reason that I'm not in that kind of a situation any more is because I came to learn that a relationship can't thrive if there isn't mutual love between yourself and the person that you are in a relationship with. You might be head over heels for someone, but the relationship won't last if they don't love you the same way.
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@mrscallands22 (2852)
• United States
1 Oct 10
That is so true... and absolutely right. It makes me second guess things a lot.. but I try not to.
Thanks for sharing!!
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@luxlyangels (1286)
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29 Sep 10
Dont like a whole lot of pages my friend .lol
Well about that that always happens in a relationship so its just natural.
@mrscallands22 (2852)
• United States
1 Oct 10
Does it HAVE to be like that, though??
Thanks for sharing your views!!
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@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
29 Sep 10
Due to things that have happened in our relationship I know my love is stronger than my husband's. I also believe women tend to love more whole heartedly than men. I believe when we give our hearts to someone we take it more seriously than they do. I know my husband loves me but some days I feel it is more out of feeling he has to love me because of the many things we have been through together than it is really loving me with his heart.
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
7 Oct 10
It is a sad and depressing feeling sometimes. I also know the steps I will have to take if I don't feel loved enough. I am putting some great effort into my marriage and we are both working to make it better but we agree if it isn't better after a solid year of really working then we know what we have to do.
Thanks for making mine the best response.
@mrscallands22 (2852)
• United States
7 Oct 10
It's so hard to let go.. though.. I don't feel like I have the strength to...so I endure what I know isn't necessary just because I love him so much. Just know that you are not alone in your feelings..
@mrscallands22 (2852)
• United States
29 Sep 10
Wow.. that is really deep. I kind of feel quite similar to you in a lot of ways. It is a hurtful feeling sometimes.. so I try not to dwell on the thought too much because all it does is put a deeper wedge between our marriage. I am praying a lot more now than I ever have and I'm confident that things will change. If not, then I know what necessary steps I have to take in my life in order to achieve the level of happiness that I feel like I deserve. Best response award goes to you!!
Thanks for sharing!!
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@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
I know myself if I love him more than his love but this is hard to know if he love me so much as I do. More men are pretending to their feelings towards the girls and that is hard to know. Only the feelings can tell but sometimes it was failed. Anyway the true love come from God.
@mrscallands22 (2852)
• United States
29 Sep 10
That is one statement that I can agree with. True love comes from above. Unconditional, loyal and neverending.
Thanks for sharing your views!!
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@mrscallands22 (2852)
• United States
29 Sep 10
I can definitely feel you on that. I think that the majority of people feel this way.
Thanks for commenting!!
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@joey_matthews (8354)
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24 Oct 10
Everyone's entitled to their own opinions, I personally feel my love and marriage is very strong but I don't brag or shout out about it. I really dislike the people who tend to always post it, if it was the case I would of thought they would spend more time with each other instead of writing sloppy status every five minutes. I have a few friends on facebook that post every hour that they love their partners but very rarely do they write a status about going out together or share pictures. One friend always is pictured with her female friends and her boy friend well, he just sits around the house it seems.
I don't really care about expressing my emotions for the public to see, don't get me wrong I love my wife very much but do people really want to read about it all the time?
@mrscallands22 (2852)
• United States
7 Nov 10
See you sound like my husband in this instance.. who is content with a relationship status as "in a relationship" instead of "married" because he CLAIMS he doesn't care what people say/think. I have mine as "married" and I have been asking him to change it for weeks... but he refuses so I have come to the conclusion that I am going to make mine... not visible... so that when people come onto my page... they don't know whether I'm single, married or divorced. And I doubt he will like the response that I will receive of guys trying to get at me and things like that... but I don't even care. I love my husband very much, too.. but when it comes to things like Facebook.... and things like that... he is the most self-centered, immature, insecure man that I have ever met in my life. And i DESPISE it!!
Thanks for sharing your views!! Sorry it took me so long to respond!!
