i love my husband a lot but i m very upset..
By preetidahiya
@preetidahiya (75)
India
7 responses
@jltrent (37)
• United States
5 Oct 10
A friend of mine could not have children. Went and seen a doc was all set up to do all that they needed to do. And then one day she found out she was preggo. Sometimes it takes time to get pregant. If I were you I would go and see your doc. It may not even be you, it could be him. But its something you both need to get checked. And there is always the option of adoting.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
30 Sep 10
I really understand your feelings, It also happened to my cousin, my cousin has been married 7 years, but has not given the child. They often consult a doctor, and make them stress. Finally they decided to not want children too. They give up, but a few months after their surrender, my cousin pregnant, and was very surprised us all. Maybe you need a little quiet and not too think about having children. You may be too tense, because it has not also given the child. I pray for you, hope you soon get the child.
@Galena (9110)
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29 Sep 10
for a start it sounds like you're blaming yourself, and you shouldn't.
it may be that he's the one that can't make you a mother. it takes two after all.
if you're concerned that one of you may have fertility problems, you should meet with your doctor and both get tested out.
if, ultimately, after medical intervention you still can't have children together, there are other options out there.
enjoy your marriage together. marriage isn't about having children. it's two people in love together, who may or may not have children.
@tamarafireheart (15384)
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29 Sep 10
Hello preetidahiya,
Marriage is not all about having children, its love for one another, if you can't have any children at the moment you or your husband should worry about it, if it meant to happen, it will happen, we are childless couple, have been for 30 years, it does not bother us at all, take it easy, don't worry and it may happen.
Tamara
