feelings to be dumped by someone you love

Should really be very painful. But it's good to know we have our friends and family to help us overcome these pains of life.

i would feel too sad. i would just ask him why. i needed to know the reason. anyway i wasnt dumped but i had a guy that we were best friends and we cared for each other and then i fell for him. and i told him how i felt. anyway he started to act a bit strange and talked with me but started to meet other people and leave me a bit behind. till that he started to ignore me. and when he met a girl was even worse. that girl pretended she was my friend, said one day he loves me, he said it too and then it was all a joke in the end. sure i was very hurt. anyway one other day that girl humiliated me and said a big lie about me to my friend and he doubted about my word and also didnt defend me when she humiliated me. and now they are happy and they are lovers. she is a liar and a fake and is happy with the boy i loved. he was bad to me also and thats what i dont understand. i was so sweet and caring to him that i dont know why he acted that way. anyway i moved on already but hurt me to see how someone that lies and was so fake is so happy and maybe he even doubt about my word still :( i just wish he found out the truth someday but how can i prove i didnt do what she said? i have no ways to prove :(

Wow,that would be devastating. How can someone we loved dumped and leave without saying or giving us one good reason for doing so? If this happens,i guess this will break me into pieces and would leave me in desperation.

What should I feel? Probably that's the most painful part I would have to go through. Being dumped without any reason or explanation is truly hurting & sorrowful but facing the reality is the first step to mend a broken heart. I am the practical type if my partner calls it off, so be it I will never ask her mercy or do fool things to win her back until she let me know the reason which I will demand from her no matter what. I maybe practical but not judgmental. I always reconsider things especially if it's a possibility. Did she dump me because she don't love me anymore or just forcedly break me up because of her family? Is there a third party involved? Did my mom talk to her and ask her to do it?