Starting a discussion for what???

@ench815 (465)
Philippines
September 30, 2010 12:36pm CST
I've seen so many discussions started and responded to but were hardly commented on. I think it is proper that we post a comment to the responses we receive from the discussions we started. This is a social site after all, right? Why do we start a discussion for? Is it just enough to start one then receive responses. What if the responder post a question, isn't he deserving of an answer since he took time to post in your discussion?
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@wiccania (3360)
• United States
1 Oct 10
I try to comment back, but sometimes there's just too many responses or there's nothing to say. A lot of people simply post about why they agree with you and don't add anything new to the conversation. So where do I go from there? A response to the comment from me wouldn't add anything either. If someone responds with a question, I take the time to answer it. If someone responds bringing up an interesting point, a counter point, etc then I respond. But if there's not anything else to be added to the discussion, I don't respond to commenters.
@ench815 (465)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
I guess, that's fine wiccania. I was just thinking about people who don't comment at all after starting a discussion. I feel that it's sad to do that because you beat the purpose of having a discussion.
@inedible (768)
• Singapore
30 Sep 10
I only half agree. I think you should comment only if you have something relevant to say. I see some people replying with "thanks for your reply" or other generic posts. They're not actually commenting on the response - a comment should be related to the response. They're just... posting. I find it annoying, really, since I only check back on a topic after looking at the "Responded" section if I see someone else has posted after I did. Sometimes I read the new response and find the OP is just responding with pointless posts, and I feel I've wasted my time in checking the topic.
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@ench815 (465)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
I agree with what you said. I just feel that if we start a discussion, we should be polite enough to continue the discussion by commenting on the responses we received. I said that because I've seen people who would start 10 discussions a day but hardly comment on the responses they receive. Like I said, some responses would even continue the discussion by posting a question in their response but never got replied back. But you're right about saying that we should also not be commenting generic posts just for the sake of replying. Thanks.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
30 Sep 10
I try to comment back and strike a conversation with the visitors to my discussions. I do this for many reasons. The first one I would have to admit is because my husband and I need the money I get from doing this, the other reason is because I enjoy communicating with everyone. I'll admit there are discussions I've not gotten back to but I try to do this. I tell myself I will do this and usually end up not getting around to it like I should have done. However, I do for the most part try to show my appreciation to responders, commenters and discussion starters.
@ench815 (465)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
I'm not sure if everybody knows that they earn too by posting comments to all the responses they receive. I don't want to sound cynical but I guess, if they do, then we'll have more comments coming soon. Thank you for being appreciative towards your responders. =)
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
30 Sep 10
When newer members come in they eventually learn that they earn from comments and responses. Some people just read the responses and don't try to comment at all, but they miss out.
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
I'm guilty. I thought before we never earn from comments. Good thing there are discussions like this, so I'm learning and yes, earning more. So, I started commenting on others responses in my posts. Although, I think I'd rather participate more for now, rather than start a discussion. Coz it really takes time to comment back and rate each response.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
1 Oct 10
We earn for what we penned down. So I've learnt to take it in my stride. I wouldn't want to be down for any discussion that is not responded because it is not worth a discussion afterall.
@ench815 (465)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
We always earn for every contribution we placed in mylot. And no, I wouldn't feel down if I don't receive any response. But should I receive any response at all, I would like to take time in commenting to each and every reponse I receive if it's called for.
• Pune, India
1 Oct 10
I guess we start a discussion for a topic which we don't know, by various comments, we get to know that topic from different perspectives, and yes, giving a lot of knowledge about that topic...
@ench815 (465)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
Well, there are different topics started every second in mylot. And you're right, there are a lot of questions being asked as a started discussions. Some can be comments, too.
@inu1711 (5285)
• Romania
30 Sep 10
For what? For earning! I've just read (and respond to) a discussion when a user adviced a new user to start more discussions, because if he gets lot of responses, he will earn more. Instead of teaching him to discuss in order to earn more, this user gave the new user a wrong information. There is a wrong perception about earning more for a higher number of responses you get. But it's not true. You earn for what you write, not for what the others respond to you. Another thing that I don't like about some users is that I respond, they comment, I comment again and... that's all. But I'd like to further the discussion, I'd like the other user to come back and comment more, after all, this is a DISCUSSION about, isn't it?
@inedible (768)
• Singapore
30 Sep 10
@StephanieAnnC: If it's a widely-believed myth, the user probably does believe in the false information he's giving out. It's a rather believable myth too - It's reasonable to believe that higher quality topics would pay more, and response amount would be a simple (though not very accurate) way of measuring a topic's quality.
• United States
30 Sep 10
I agree with you. First, I don't understand why people would give other people false information, unless they believe it themselves. And secondly, I like to actually discuss things as well. IT makes mylot well...more useful.
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@inu1711 (5285)
• Romania
1 Oct 10
I'm sure the user that I'm talking about did that because he was sure this is the way things go in myLot. But I wonder why would somebody pass an information that he's not sure about? I always try to sustain my opinions with proofs and if there is no proof, I mention that the information comes from my experience or it's only a general supposition between myLotters.
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
30 Sep 10
Yes, I agree with you. You are perfectly right. This is a community with members working and cooperating together for mutual benefit. There are members from countries around the world. We should have regards for one another and respond to one another, as best we can. Happy myLotting.
@ench815 (465)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
I wish everybody feels the same as you do. That way, there will be more interaction on the site.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
1 Oct 10
Of course that is the polite thing to do when one starts a conversation, Ench. I think that if we notice that a person is AWOL from a discussion that he/she started then we should jump in and respond ourselves. It is up to all of us to make it a discussion and not just the starter of the discussion.
@ench815 (465)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
I believe you're right sid. But we usually don't see this. If I start a discussion then I would receive mails that i received responses and thus, I know. This I would try to answer and if I would have time to stay longer in mylot, I would check discussions under my interests. After which, I would respond to my friends' discussions. That would hardly leave me time to respond to unresponded discussions. Well, I won't mind posting more if I have enough time.
@o2bnocn (2992)
• United States
30 Sep 10
When I start a discussion I try my hardest to comment on my responses. One thing that aggravates me is when I start a discussion and no one responds to my discussions. It hardly ever happens but it does. I think when I comment on the responses that it makes the discussions better. Sometimes when I can't find any discussions to reply to then I will start my own. Most of the time I will replay to almost all of the discussions that I read. i try to give my opinion or write at least a paragraph to the discussion. If I don't know what to say then I will not reply to the discussion. There have been some discussions that I don't like what they are saying. For instance if I don't understand what the person is saying I won't reply. Most of the time if the person only writes one sentence then I will also not reply. Occasionally I will find a reply that is only one sentence that I do like so I will reply to that one. A discussion is suppose to be a discussion that we enjoy and we exchange our views, opinions, and thoughts. We shouldn't write one thing and never look at the discussion again. It makes mylot more enjoyable for everyone and increases our earnings at the same time. When I get good responses and people reply to my discussion it makes me want to start even more discussions.
@ench815 (465)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
I feel the same way. I don't respond to discussions where I have nothing to say. But I'm talking about the discussions we started. I deem it proper to comment on the responses we receive. That way, mylot becomes a social site through its real essence. As you said, it will be more enjoyable too.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 10
I always try to respond, to all the feedback on my discussion. Sometimes I'm confused, because the response that I get almost the same. If there are responses that ask the question, certainly I will answer. It would be easier for me to respond, if the response given is a question.
@ench815 (465)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
Your intentions are good indahfth. I see that you're interested to read the responses from your discussions and try to comment on the ones that need replies. But some people hardly comment but just keep on starting one discussion after another and that's what I'm sad about.
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@oldchem1 (8132)
30 Sep 10
Sadly there are so many members on here who just don't bother to do this, and yet by not doing so their 'discussion'ceases to be a discussion - a discussion needs responses or else it ends up just a question and answer session or just random comments. I try my best to leave responses on my discussions - sometimes life and time intervenes but I do my best to comment on most of my discussions.
@ench815 (465)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
You hit the spot, oldchem1. That's precisely my point. What's the use of starting a discussion when you have no intention of checking back on it? It's ok if time doesn't permit you to do so right away but you can always go back to it anyway, in your own time. We do earn from our comments too, and at the same time continue the discussion.
@harry89 (2330)
• India
30 Sep 10
yea, u r right , it should be kept in mind
@ench815 (465)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Thanks! It will be a more pleasant and happier site if we do so, I think.
• United States
1 Oct 10
that is true. You deserve an answer. Most of the time, discussions usually have to be a popular topic for someone to respond. To be honest, i havent started a discussion yet. i might. never know. look how many people have responded to this topic. :) most people are just curious and some people just want some answers. If you start a new topic, just start it about something that is interesting, up to date, and popular. U will have tons of responses. Im just waiting for someone to start one about Obama. that will be a never ending topic. lol
@ench815 (465)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
Haha! Maybe, someone will soon. I see a lot of news about Obama in the internet. I notice people have different opinions about him. Hi donna! Actually, I'm not talking about responses to a discussion that was started. It's more of commenting to a response that you received from a discussion you started. I think it would be nice if we reply to the people who took time to answer a discussion we started.