does your bf/gf cry when you have a big arguement? ^^

Yup... As much as possible I avoid making her cry...

There were times in the past that my bf, now my husband, often cried during the argument. I don't know why he did cry but I guess, he realized he was wrong and that it frustrates him that I'd seem not to forgive him. Out of too much emotions, frustrations or helplessness, maybe. His last resort was to cry. I did not find it cute but, i did not take it against him, either. I was too emotionally stressed, too, that i didn't bother to evaluate why he cried. Now, its is always me who cries whenever we are fighting. Not because I care so much but because of frustrations and pains...Him? oh, he just keeps his silence and do his thing as if he doesn't give a damn...

It depends on the argument.

hello sweetloveforeve! i used to believe that it's sweet for a guy to cry after an argument or when he has to go somewhere else for sometime and you'll be separated for a while. That was before i discovered that the same guy turned out to be a two-timer, lol. He wanted to have me and another woman at the same time, he wanted the best of both worlds. anyway, it's rare for a guy to cry after an argument that's why we regard it as sweet. But now, i value a sincere apology more than a guy's tears, lol. that is what matters to me now, i won't let myself be fooled for some crocodile tears anymore. sorry for being so cynical but i was simply very hurt by his betrayal.

My bf and I really love each other, but when we argue about something we really disagree about, we won't stop until one of us gives up and cry. I always will be the first to cry and stop talking to him. We get really upset because we could never agree at each other for whatever we are arguing about. So when I start crying, he will keep quite and just watch me. But few times I caught him crying too while watching me crying. When I ask why, he said, he felt bad for pursuing the argument till it made me cry and that he knows he supposed to look after me. Then we will hug each other, tell each other how painful the argument was, then we promise to never talk about the thing again. We will just leave the argument without solving it after that and move on.

We never have an arguement before. I love my bf so much! he really care me, don't want to hurt me.

Well most of the time I do cry sometimes I feel like he is so insensitive like he doesnt even caRE.. but he always say sorry..its just that sometimes I just cant help but to cry.,, weve been together for 4 years now..I just saw him cry once.. it is when I told him that I had enough and I dont wanna continue being with him anymore..then he cried and he beg...(the truth is oh gosh what I am telling now..maybe I just wanna test him) thats the first time. (I can decribe him as a very tough guy.. .. sometimes he acts 101% being a guy..he even dont wanna bring my bag before he said it looks ga y..haha but I made him changed his mind..lol)

I know it does not look good if a guy cries. But i do cry sometimes after the arguement as i dont like to see my wife hurt. I feel that she needs to be taken care off and needs to be understood. I feel moved when i see her in pain and tears automatically flow.

Sometimes it happend to argue pretty bad and we all start to yell at each other and then we feel sorry for the way we reacted, and we apologize to each other, and i cry , and he cannot see me upset or crying, because he starts to cry with me too, and when i am happy, he is happy too.

i saw my bf cry one time when we had a big argument and i quit responding to him for a while.. he was holding my hand saying he was really sorry... when i started to speak, i saw big tears falling down on his cheeks.. he turned back and wiped it away... i felt terrible when i saw him cry... i never wanted to see him cry, but i guess i struck his ego when i was silent.. when i saw him cry, i also broke into tears and was sorry for making him feel bad.. i was hurt on the first place that's why i kept my mouth shut for a while.. i never knew that his apology was sincere until he cried.. in the end we both cried and said sorry for each other.. that's the cute happy part.. it's best to confront and share each others' weaknesses and strengths.. ^_^

yes,he really cry.. because he doesn't want our relationship to be broken..yeAh..it's really cute seeing those guyz crying because seldom of them did it..you're totally true it's also a sign that determines that he/she really loves you..

I think no?? cause ever since i didn't saw my bf crying,,,,,, but i don't know in his own if he will cry,,,,, but in one day his sister told me that he cry because of me,,and i think he just cry in his own that i cant see him.../

Good morning! My boyfriend does not cry when we get into big arguments but I do generally. I do not really think it is cute if a guy cries... well not to me. However, I think it is important if he apologizes or does something cute to help cheer me up from the argument- in which he does thankfully. :)

well in my case I cry first then my girlfriend starts crying and then we both sit and sought it out that why we did this and we will be back to normal I would say that if a girl cry's for a boy she loves him but if a guy cry's for a girl no one can love that girl more than that guy...

my friend always cry when she have a big argument with her boyfriend. guess that her boyfriend really love her, because most of the time when she cry, he will stop arguing and apologize. guys just can't fight when a girl crying right? i don't think is cute to see a boy crying. you might right because he cares for his girlfriend, but most of the girls don't like boy who cry. they suppose to be tough...anyway i think it is sweet to see when a couple is fighting, the girl cry and the boy is trying to cheer her up...