boy/girl is naked in front of u. u are committed. can u assure u wont sleep...

boy and girl almost kissing^^ - boy and girl going to kiss^^
Portugal
October 1, 2010 1:14pm CST
hi guys^^ imagine that a boy/girl is naked in front of you. you are committed. can you assure that you wont sleep with this person and will be faithfull to your bf/gf?^^ about me if a boy was naked in front of me i wouldnt do nothing bcs i respect my bf. i couldnt do that to him. i rather tell my bf i like someone else than cheat. what about you guys?^^ please share^^
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@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
2 Oct 10
Well, the only man who can turns me on is my future husband. And he said it is the same for him. He once said to me, no matter what someone does in front of us to seduce us, for some people, unless there is enough love inside them to touch the person then it will happen.
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• Portugal
2 Oct 10
yes^^ thats very cute what he said^^ that as long as there is love people wont cheat even if thousand hot girls appeared in front of him^^ if we love someone just that person matters^^ so im happy that for you and for him just each other can make each other happy and turned on^^ im very happy for you guys and i wish it can last forever like that^^
• United States
1 Oct 10
I wouldn't cheat either. In fact, if the man knew I was committed, I'd have to wonder why he was naked in front of me. I would ask him why and ask him not to do it again. I might even go so far as to tell my boyfriend or mate about the incident-because a friend that would do that, is not a friend.
• Portugal
2 Oct 10
yes thats great that you wouldnt cheat^^ and yes knowing you are committed and try to get you thats too bad really. and yes you should tell your hubby about the incident. i for sure would tell my bf if something like this happened. and yes if was a friend that would be a big big disrespect. if was a true friend would never do that. could say his feelings to you and be honest but dont try anything bcs if you are committed he has to accept it.
• Canada
1 Oct 10
If I am in a happy and committed relationship, I don't think I would allow myself to be in a position of having another man naked in front of me so there wouldn't be a decision to make ;) I would never be that close to another man so I wouldn't worry about being tempted to cheat.
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@luxlyangels (1286)
3 Oct 10
In the first place why would you let a guy be naked in front of you. I mean if you dont let it happen or dont give room for it ,it wont. As for me,well i dont know!Simple. Let me experience it first. I have been in the situation before but i was always a single man in all occurrences.
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@marcmm (1804)
• Malaysia
2 Oct 10
Well, it is all depend on how you can resist the temptation. The lust might well overtake your system and before you know it you have done something you might regret. So it is hard to tell if something like that happen. Saying is easier than done. So I kep my finger cross, if I still in my own sense and control I wouldn't sleep with the girl.
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@SinRealm (558)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
my loyalty is my best trait. I won't sleep around. :)
• Portugal
1 Oct 10
im happy that you wouldnt cheat on your gf^^ thats awesome that you are faithful and care much for your gf^^ i just wish that she wouldnt also cheat on a situation like that^^ lets hope that obama wont do a surprise like this to your gf ahah just joking with you^^ anyway how are things with her and you?^^ is all fine and happy? and that guy? does she still talk much with him? i wish not.
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• Portugal
2 Oct 10
she slept with you thats what you meant? oh sorry that she still talks much to him :( i see that she wont stop being her friend unless he tries something with her. and sorry that they will be hanging out without you there. is very hard to see your gf alone with other boy without you see what they are doing right? :( i just wish that she respects you and starts to care more to spend more time with you^^
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@SinRealm (558)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
She just slept on me. But anyways, sad to say she still talks to him. She's not the type to leave a person alone unless proven guilty. :( Obama is a smart one. And sadly they'll be hanging out together tomorrow. :(
@shaggin (71663)
• United States
7 Feb 12
The guy I was seeing he and I broke up on new years day. He broke up with me because we just didnt see each other enough. When I was with him in a relationship it wouldnt matter if a guy was standing naked in front of me and was the most gorgeous man in the world I wouldnt cheat. Now that he and I split up I am with him and seeing another guy as well. They both know that they are not the only one that I am with and they are ok with it. I dont know how long I will let this go on though. I dont really like seeing two people it makes me feel skanky.
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
2 Oct 10
that depends on how much she is willing to pay me LOL
• Portugal
2 Oct 10
aw my god ahah :) would she really have to pay you for that? imagine is a very very hot girl with big a*s and big boobs like all guys like. are you sure she needed to pay? ahah besides would you cheat your wife? my god you shouldnt :( anyway i know that for guys is hard to resist to hot girls with clothes on with clothes off is the complete disaster ahah :)
• United States
2 Oct 10
Well if I were sober, I may have a chance of resisting the temptation, however, if I were drunk at the time, I would probably not have much of a chance of walking away LOL
• Portugal
2 Oct 10
ahah my god^^ even maybe not drunk you wouldnt resist. bcs the way you talk really seems like that. anyway im happy that it probably wont happen so you can keep being faithful to your wife like you been till now^^ she loves you so she deserves that^^ besides if you cheated on her would you ever tell her? i wish you dont ever but if happened would you tell? i wish so :) honesty is always the best.
• Singapore
2 Oct 10
LOL! I'll think about that.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
1 Oct 10
What is the expected answer?
• Portugal
1 Oct 10
well im not expecting any answer^^ thats why i asked. i think some would cheat but some wouldnt. it all depends of the person and the feelings she/he has for his/her lover^^ so i dont know what you will answer. you can answer the truth :) is what im looking for. also i wont judge noone :) this is only a discussion to know what people would do in a situation like that^^
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• Philippines
4 Oct 10
LOL I have seen naked bodies over the net. And I don't see in any situation that a man would stand in front of me naked. If that would happen I think I won't sleep with him. Maybe I'll stare at him the whole night through. LOL ^_^
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
3 Oct 10
if I were with they gut I love I wouldn;t have eyes for anybody else. I wouldn't at least think about cheating on him. I mean why should I cheat on him as long as I have all I need in him. he;s so hot, so attractive...
• Portugal
4 Oct 10
aww you are thinking again in your ex right? you said why would i cheat him if i have all i need in him he is so hot and so attractive. what you gonna do about your ex? anyway im happy that you wouldnt cheat on him^^ anyway thats too obvious you wouldnt bcs you love him so much still. you didnt give up of him coming back yet. so why dont you go talk with him? live like this wont be good at all. just will give you sadness and problems.
• Portugal
4 Oct 10
in your relationship who usually said i love you more times? was it him? or was it you? was him right?^^ the way you talk it seems that he said it to you but you didnt say very often. maybe he broke up with you to be sure that you really love him^^ you know that actions mean much but words are important also^^ and maybe he just want you to say to him you love him^^ maybe he thinks you dont love him enough and that was why you didnt tell it often. so you should talk with him and say that you love him^^ if then he doesnt want nothing anymore you can leave. but talk with him^^ or else you will regret later. just if you love him say it. maybe he is just insecure about how you feel for him^^ besides you have a bf now so maybe he really think you dont love him at all. talk with your bf and break up is the best bcs you still love your ex and for what you said your ex is just waiting you to say you love him^^ so go for it^^
• Romania
4 Oct 10
I guess I'm too proud to tell him someting :)...he used to tell me these things, that I can't show my real feelings, that I'm in a certain way ashamed to tell him I love him...well i don't know. I can't do it. I'll wait for him.if he wants me back then he'll do someting about it. if not...ok, I'll back up, won't make any move, not anymore
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@avic24 (57)
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
Oh my!!!! In this situation, this is unrespectful.. I wouldnt sleep together with him. I just leave and go.
@else22 (4317)
• India
4 Jul 12
I am a man who had been attached with a woman for years.She frequently shed her cloths in my presence and it was impossible for me to resist the temptation.I would sleep with her.At that time I was unmarried.Now when I see my wife naked I can't help hugging her and enjoying a session.