u like a boy/girl^^ do you approach him/her and ask him/her out?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
Portugal
October 1, 2010 6:41pm CST
hi guys^^ if you like a boy/girl do you approach him/her and ask him/her out?^^ about me if i like a boy i cant say any ahah i feel too shy^^ he has to come to me first^^ before i had a crush in a guy and i could never just ask him out ahah neither his number^^ even i thought about writing him a note ahah but didnt. anyway what about you guys?^^ do you ask him/her out?^^ please share^^ 
4 responses
@mustafarox (453)
• India
2 Oct 10
well I am really shy guy and when I fell love my girlfriend came and proposed me and so I would have have approached that girl but I would have asked her to be friend of mine and then I would have increased my relationship...
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
4 Oct 10
aw i see you would had ask her to be your friend and then maybe be lovers with time^^ well thats sweet that she approached you^^ with a rose right and asked you to be with her^^ i remember you told me^^ is too sweet what she did and im happy that you accepted to be with her^^ anyway you shouldnt be shy to say how you feel^^ sometimes by being shy we ca lose the chance to meet someone sweet^^ like me had a crush on a guy and bcs was so shy never could approach him^^ and im sure he is too sweet and i would love to at least be friends with him^^
@mustafarox (453)
• India
4 Oct 10
ya so only I told you that first I will become a friend then if I get that much strength then I might have proposed her or told her about my feelings...this is noting when I was young I used to hardly talk to girls...
@pokumon (644)
• United States
1 Oct 10
I've been fairly lucky in that I've been asked out by guys that I've really liked. It was a different story in high school and junior high. I kept tight-lipped about my crushes, never letting them or any of my friends or family know about them. I was really innocent back then and I didn't really know anything so I think it was for the best. Things might have moved too quickly for my liking I think when I was young. Anyway, psychology tells us that late girl developers are the second most happy behind early developing males so I had time to adjust before getting involved in any kind of relationship. Still the first time a guy I liked asked to kiss me I said no because I had braces and I was really shy. I had to approach him later and tell him I liked him and that yes I did want to kiss I just was caught off guard at first. Of course, then we got into a discussion because he wanted an open relationship where he could kiss and fool around with other girls (basically do everything except having se* with them). I said yes because I wanted him that bad and shouldn't have been surprised when 2.5 months later he dumped me to sleep with another girl. I fell into a depression and started to fail out of school so maybe it wasn't such a good thing to wait to get my heart broken at a very competitive school. It all worked out eventually though.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
4 Oct 10
aw you really accepted to be with that guy in an open relationship? im sorry 
he was too stupid by dumping you. by accepting that was bcs you really loved him bcs you were not kissing any other besides him. im truly sorry that you even accepted that. you should had never accept that guy if he wanted to fool around. anyway im sorry that he dumped you to sleep with a girl monthes later but the truth is we cant trust in a guy that wants to be with us and other girls too. it just means he doesnt really love us. anyway you said that all worked out eventually. so you found a better guy?^^
he was too stupid by dumping you. by accepting that was bcs you really loved him bcs you were not kissing any other besides him. im truly sorry that you even accepted that. you should had never accept that guy if he wanted to fool around. anyway im sorry that he dumped you to sleep with a girl monthes later but the truth is we cant trust in a guy that wants to be with us and other girls too. it just means he doesnt really love us. anyway you said that all worked out eventually. so you found a better guy?^^@pokumon (644)
• United States
4 Oct 10
Actually I did make out with other people two (a guy and a girl) and flirt heavily with a guy who would become my future boyfriend. He had a girlfriend then and I remember people were trying to convince him to break up with her so he could kiss me. I think the night he broke up with her (long distance) we made out and started to date. He was good for me and I still kind of miss him. The guy I made out with too I had an open relationship with after this guy. Now I'm single (have been for over a year) and am sort of interested in a guy, but I'm in Chicago and he's in California. And he's awful about picking up his phone. I know he likes me though and is single too. So something might start when I go back to school. I'm a little rusty and nervous though having been single for so long.
@BrittneeD (351)
• United States
1 Oct 10
How do you never run out of idea's for a discussion seriously? just question after question and most of the time they are pretty good questions. I have noticed you sometimes repeat discussions though like days later but still you have so many discussions do you also respoond to other discussions or mostly juststart discussions?
Anyways in regards to your original question I would usualy approach him or find some sort of way to let him know I like him.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
4 Oct 10
aw ahah i have always many ideas bcs i have a big imagination^^ im happy that you like my discussions and im very happy that you answer it too^^ well i dont exactly repeat the same discussion but ask something similar^^ regarding different situations^^ ahah but i know i really have a big imagination and sometimes ask things like movies ahah well im happy that if you liked him you would find a way to approach him^^ about me when had that crush on chinese boy i went to the chinese store sometimes but almost always was his mother there ahah ^^ anyway my sis just said this week that now he goes everyday to my mum's cafe get dinner or lunch^^ ahah^^ anyway im not working there anymore also i have a bf now^^
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
4 Oct 10
Well 11 years ago , I Purposed the Girl of my life,On 1st October 1999. at that day, she said that, I will think about it,I tell you , Listening this, I was on the 7th skies, I was flying in air , I was so happy, As I have accomplished an achievement.
But On 4th October 1999, When i met her for final decision, she said She didn't got the time , to think over my proposal.Listen this, My Head spin in anger for a while, But I controlled my anger and said on the spot, OK What do u think Now, she Shake Her in No.I said OK. I never went to her again.What do u think did i do the right thing
