What if you would find out that you were adopted?

I would not mind if i will know that I am just only an adopted child. I am not an adopted. As long as they have treated me right and my foster parents loved me like their own child then it would be fine for me. And as long as they haven't maltreated me then I will continue to regard them as my real parents. after all i would owe them my life because I will be nothing without their true love and care for me.

That would be mixed emotions on my end. First of all, I would love my adopted parents even more. I will be grateful for the things they have done for me. Also, I will try and find my real parents. I deserve an explanation why they did that.

Well, if such a case, I think it does not really matter considering that if they have treated me as their own, then I would consider myself lucky. I would be thankful and give them the respect and love that I would have give to my biological parents. However, I would certainly inquire as to who my real parents are. Perhaps if given the chance, I will meet them....

I think I will have mixed emotions. I will be very sad, happy and excite. Sad because I really love my parents and to find out that they’re not my biological folks is sad. Happy because they at least told me at my age, I think it would be better to tell someone at an early age. Excited because I will get to know my real parents, whoever they mabe.

Hiya Rap, No I would still love my adopted Parents and try to find out who the others are also if I can. Either way I would still feel like loving both sets of Parents if I could. I suppose it depends on the circumstances too. The others might not want to be found ever so it´s also a question of respect for them also. But it would be nice to know who they are.

I'm sure that if I had discovered that I was adopted this wouldn't change my feelingt for my parents. The important thing is the actual relations in a family, not some background in the past. I don't know even if I would care to know who my biological parents was.

People find out they're adopted in different ways. These days, it's not uncommon to find out when you're so young you might not remember being told. However you find out you're adopted, at some stage you might start to think about whether or not you want to contact your real parents. People feel differently about this, and might have mixed emotions. Some people might have an instant desire to find out more about their biological parents whereas others may not feel the need or urge, or may in fact feel strongly that they do not want any contact. Everybody's response is individual, and can depend on a number of factors, including the way you find out about your adoption.

Hi rappeter! I'm not adopted either and I love my parents very much. But if I were adopted I would have loved my adopted parents as much if not more. My hope would be to meet my biological parents and to find out why I was given away. If they were to accept me then it would only enrich my life.

Well speaking for myself i just found out that i am adopted when im 30 years old...and i didnt mind it nothing has changed and im so thankful for my parents raising me as their own...

I do not know what I will feel. Maybe I will ask my adoptive parents if they know who my parents are, and maybe ask them if they know the reason why my parents gave me away. If its reasonable enough like I was sick and my parents do not have money to keep me alive, then ok. I will not keep grudges on them. If the reason was like that of the one who left her baby in an airplane, or tried to kill me. I will not look for my parents anymore. To h3ll with my biological mom if that's the case and I will love my adoptive parents even the more.

At first it would be shocking for me, because the truth is I am adopted. But that thing doesn't change anything since they have never treated me like I don't belong to them instead my brothers and my sisters like me so much even though they already knew that I wasn't their real sister. Their treated me very special though they keep that secret to me for a long time I might feel that I have been betrayed but after thinking of too many time I find it that they are only to protect me from being hurt.

if i did found out i was adopted and i was treated really well by my parents i'd be really thankful towards them. unlike those shows that has adopted kids rebelling and going all out on their adopted parents i won't change my treatment towards them. why would i complain if i've been treated like their real child and been treated well. i would want to know my biological parents, and the reason why they gave me up but i won't put so much importance on that. i'd be happy with the parents i have presently.

I think that i would still love my adoptive parents like they are my real parents. I also would like to meet my real parents so that i could find out why they made the decision. If it was because they could not afford for me to have a good life, so they gave me away so that i would live better than that would probably be Ok.

I'd be shocked. It wouldn't make me love my parents any less or see them any differently, but I'd definately want to meet my real parents if at all possible.

you'll probably always want to know who they really are but at the end of the day you might not like what you find out. maybe your adopted parents are way better parents then you real parents ever would have been. i don't know my dad and don't get along with my mom, sometimes i wish i was adopted. maybe at least i would have felt like am loved by someone which is something i never really felt by my real parents. i say be happy with the good things you do have cause you never know what it would have been like other wise. still try to find out who they are if you like because i would like to know who my dad is, feels like there's a hole in my heart that needs to be filled. best advise i can give you hun.

I would wonder why they felt they needed to keep it a secret, because it wouldn't be something they needed to hide. But, it wouldn't change my relationship. They'd still be my real parents -the people that took care of me and loved me as parents. I would just find out they weren't my biological parents. At the same time, I'd be very curious about my birth parents. Because they would be a part of me biologically, and I'm fascinated by family history. This would just give me two to look into. And, sure, I'd like to know more about the person who gave birth to me and what lead them to put me up for adoption. Curiosity is a pretty big trait in me.

Well just accept the truth so it is very important to know the real biological parents. Although their would be mixed feeling of being angry, sad and self pity I just nothing to blame the people who adopted they just save a child from misery especially if she had been abandon by the real parents or their are more deeper reasons. So just acept the fact then if the real parents still alive it is nice to keep in touch or know them and know their real reasons for giving you. Though their could be lot of blame they also have their regrets I am very sure for that the past could no longer revive just live to learn for a day..

For me I don't know how to react about that because i shocking part of me.

Hi rappeter13! I think what is more important is the bond they have built in their lifetime together. That is, if the relationship between the young and the adoptive parents are good. The fact that the child was loved in spite of being adopted is something. Although the child might want to know who the parents really are. If the love between the adopted and the parents are strong, it might hold.

will me in my own says, if i will know that they are not my real parents, but they treated me as there real daugther, never mind. but i will just ask them who is my real parents,,.. and i will also ask permation to them if they well allow me to see, and talk to my real parents. just to ask them why they left when im still young? what is there reason..... thats it..