do you easily get hurt when are in love?^^

Portugal
October 3, 2010 11:19am CST
hi guys^^ do you easily get hurt when are in love? about me i get hurt easily. bcs i take things too serious and sometimes boys take things serious but doesnt show as much care as we girls do so sometimes i get very disappointed. im happy to be caring with my bf but i think he should also care more for me. i know he has many problems but i also have and always find time for him and love him. why cant he do the same for me? maybe i shouldnt care so much what about you guys? do you easily get hurt too? please share^^
5 responses
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
3 Oct 10
every person at a certain moment gets hurt, disappointed by the person he/she loves. the most important thing it's to learn from your mistakes. yea I got hurt once, and it still hurt like hell...that's why i can;'t love anyone ..I'm afraid I'll get hurt again, and I prefer not to involve myself, but to hurt others. I know it's not ok, but in a certain way it makes me feel better
• Portugal
3 Oct 10
yes i see you are afraid to get hurt again so you rather dont give too much of yourself to others but you should give your heart again^^ not all guys are the same and im sure that your bf for what you told me he really loves you so you should try to open your heart to him^^ dont be afraid to get hurt again^^ me also i got hurt badly 4 times but i decide to always give all of me. even if i get hurt at least i know i loved that guy and did all for him and me to be happy^^ if you dont give all of you you dont get hurt yes but you cant feel the full power of love^^ you will be wasting a chance of maybe be happy with the right guy for you^^ so please trust your bf^^
• Portugal
3 Oct 10
im sorry that you got hurt twice :( but how old are you? and yes some guys are too careless even guys like my age ^^ like 20's they always act too careless. at least the ones that i find. sometimes i think when will i find one that cares for me more than everything? is like is always me caring the most. sometimes im really angry and sad with the way my life always ends up being. sometimes i just wish i was a player bcs that way wouldnt get hurt :( but i cant do that to noone. im not like that.
• Romania
3 Oct 10
I can;t....I can;t thrust anyone...it's a thing that I can't explain. I can assure you that most of the guys, at least the ones who have my age, are the same...a bunch of jerks. 2 times I wished a serious relationship...both of the times I got hurt, and this is enough for me
• United Arab Emirates
3 Oct 10
I do gt hurt...but the times after that will be more sweeter when we patch up.
• Portugal
3 Oct 10
i see^^ yes is good that you always end solving things^^ im too happy for you^^ is great to know that things always get better in the end^^ i dont like when couples fight and then act like nothing happened. we must always talk about what we really feel so we wont keep that inside. keep things inside will just make things worse. so im too happy that you and your wife always find a way to solve things^^
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
3 Oct 10
I think I can. Because once I also get hurt in love. I loved a girl very much. And when I proposed her then she rejected my proposal and also say me very wrong thing about me. So I get hurtled. But now I feel normal. So I think I can get hurt very easily.
• Portugal
3 Oct 10
aw sorry that you proposed to her and she rejected you :( anyway she shouldnt had say something bad about you. if she didnt love you she should say sorry i dont love you but we can be friends or something sweet. she was too rude to you :( anyway dont think more about her. she doesnt deserve your love at all. im sorry that you got hurt but you will see your will find a great sweety girl^^
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
3 Oct 10
No I don't get hurt easily. Because I have not Involved too much Myself in love.I do care for people but that much as they care for me.Besides this I don't keep much Expectancy or dependence on others. So This also keeps me safe. have a nice day
• Portugal
3 Oct 10
i see^^ you care for people as much as they care for you^^ so you dont get hurt^^ i should do the same like you^^ but i always care too much and cant avoid to be hurt in the end. i shouldnt give so much of myself when im in love but i always do that. anyway yes we must not depend on others or we get hurt really. if we give much of ourselves and dont receive the same back.
• India
4 Oct 10
hey I think your boyfriend cares for you but finds it difficult to express it even I get hurt easily but after thinking a lot about it I just let-go the problem so that it does not effect my relationship any more...