Is being jealous a good thing?

jealousy is a feeling that fair owned by everyone and became jealous, in my opinion, is a positive way to push ourselves to do better.

I think it's natural to feel jealous or to envy someone. However, it is no longer right when you start to try to break them apart because you'd think that she doesn't deserve him. Remember that loving is a decision. He decided he liked that girl and there's nothing you could do about it. Regardless the status of that person, or if you feel that you're more 'worth' than her, he decided to love her. It's okay to write about it on mylot, apart from the fact that you'd earn more money, at least you'd let it out instead of doing something you'll regret. As for your feeling. Don't worry, it will soon pass as well. There are many instances in our lives that strong feelings are perceived to be love, but after a while, you'll realize that it was out of fancy and idleness and nothing more than infatuation. You'll find your match soon. Just remember to not make a fool of yourself for someone who hasn't decided to want you. It's all not worth it. Good luck! This too shall pass.

hi aaron, being jealous is not really that bad. It is only normal to feel that way occasionally. It's normal to feel a possessive pang of jealousy, one that is sorted out in a second with a bit of reassurance. In your case this is a bit complicated since the person whom you are jealous with is just your crush. There's a possibility that he does not even know how you feel for him. Just be on guard with yourself often. There's danger in being jealous. Sometime jealousy makes you do things that you will likely regret in the end. I find a few steps on how to handle jealousy. Hope this will work for you as this one works good for me. * Understand the emotions. Jealousy is a combination of fear and anger that someone is moving on something that you feel belongs only to you. * Allow yourself to actually feel emotions in a healthy way. When you start feeling jealous, ask yourself: Is it more fear-based or more anger-based? Recognize which part of your body is being affected. If you feel a dropping or clutching sensation in your stomach, it's probably fear. If you feel a burning, tight sensation in your shoulders and jaw, then you are feeling anger. You might also feel a combination of those sensations. * Communicate your feelings. Sharing your true feeling with someone without blaming them can create a deep sense of connection between the two of you and open up a dialogue about the path of your relationship. Use "I" instead of "YOU". * Identify what your jealousy is teaching you. Jealousy can alert you to what is important to you. If you're jealous of someone talking to a friend of yours, personal relationships maybe important to you. Ask yourself, "Why am I jealous over this? What is making me jealous? What am i trying to keep? Why do I feel threatened?" When you begin to understand what makes you jealous, you can begin to take positive steps to maintain those things, without the cloud of negative emotion that accompanies jealousy. http://www.wikihow.com/Handle-Jealousy