Would you support your child for a love marriage.
By CSHINE
@SHAMRACK (8576)
India
October 6, 2010 1:41am CST
In India most of the parents would like their child to get an arranged marriage, even though mostly in cities the scenario is changing allowing their children to get marriage to their love mates. Moreover divorces are also increasing. Do you think supporting love marriage may give the freedom for those children to find their right choice even if they are not enough matured. I feel to get a right choice is something more that winning a jackpot.
2 people like this
4 responses
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
6 Oct 10
If you are in a loveless marriage, and you and your husband have children, don't stay together just for the children because you aren't doing them any favors. If you are going to get a divorce, do it in a civilized manner, and do what is right for the children. Don't fight over the children, or try to get your children to take sides, just work with them. Divorce is always a mess, but don't make it worse than it is on the children.
1 person likes this
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
6 Oct 10
Children suffer far more from an unhappy or loveless marriage than they do from a divorce.
1 person likes this
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
6 Oct 10
Love can't be imposed, although in the end must be paired, in the end will only lead to compulsion. Someday, if my children have reached the age of marriage, would I let them pick and choose her soul mate. Although, in the end (hopefully not) in their marital must there separation (divorce), let them accountable to God
@anurag3786 (6265)
• India
8 Oct 10
In present I have no any children means I am not a married guy. But I never support my child for love marriage. Because we are the example for our child that what happen if they prefer love marriage. But if my child really loves someone from hearts then I never reject his/her likes. I think when our child will be young then generations also changed.
@kodukodu84 (1567)
• Malaysia
6 Oct 10
I would support my child for a love marriage when she or he is ready to get married. I'm never gonna ask my children to marry someone who she or he do not have a love feelings too, I don't see the point. I'm not going to have a child then get them marry someone they don't love, otherwise no need to have child at all. Even if love marriages do divorce too but at least the child had a chance to choose. people change, people learn, we love, we break up and so much more, that's why given a chance to choose is important and the best thing we can give when there is nothing else we can do.
1 person likes this





