How long do you need to recover from being lovelorn?
October 8, 2010 2:53am CST
I loved a Ms.Wrong.These days i was trying my best to forget her,forget her ruthlessness.She could not make use of me anymore.But it's a painful process.I wanna end this bad situation as soon as possible,i feel sad and heartbroken now and then.Every morning when i was rinsing my mouth,a great deal of problems would flash in my head,why,why,why.Dear friends,how long do you need to recover from being lovelorn and then start a new relationship?And could share some stories with me?
8 Oct 10
jie^^ there is not a specific time^^ i also loved wrong guys before and took time to forget that. but if you put in your head that she is a wrong girl, and doesnt deserve your love and that the one for you is still out there^^ it will help you^^ do you really want to be all your life sad and crying bcs of a girl that was so bad to you? sure not^^ so just forget about her^^ that girl was a fake pretending she loved you when loved someone else. she used you. she doesnt deserve your feelings^^ so is time now to forget she exists^^ and anytime im here for you^^ and we can sing again for you to relax if you want to :)
12 Oct 10
yes im sure you can forget her^^ you deserve to be happy^^ with a sweet caring girl that really likes you^^ thanks so muchy for love my voice^^ yours is sweet also^^ and you sing very well i love chinese ahah you will sing ai mei?^^ so cutie^^ sure you can sing anytime^^ just didnt see you online lately^^ wish see you soon then so we can sing together again^^
12 Oct 10
this only depends on you :). first of all you have to wish to forget her...for real. stop asking yourself question: why this happend? why that and so on :)...it simply happened and the rest doesn;t matter. you need to stop thinking about it and try to concentrate on doing things that you like. i know it's eas to day but hard to do (i'm going trough the same situation), but you have to do it. take my advice and you'll forget her soon
13 Oct 10
Thank you,swissheart.I'll take your advice and forget her as soon as possible. These days i was trying to concentrate my life on other things,such as experiments and friends.But i would think of her now and then,maybe i need time to cure mu heart.Don't worry,there is no denying that i'll forget her.Trust me.And hope you could forget the similar person too.Thanks a lot.