My bf let me into his secret today...
By Sanitary
@Sanitary (3968)
Singapore
October 8, 2010 9:48am CST
Just as we were cuddling up in bed in the morning, i notice he was not his usual self, and he's especially loving to me. I asked him what happened, and he told me he dreamt of us. He dreamt about our past, the things we used to say to each other, words of encouragement and support. When i heard that, i was happy, til he said sorry to me.
I was surprised and he explained. He knows he's at fault for being too engrossed in work for the past month, and he feels that he neglects me. I was so happy when i heard that, but i let him carry on. He says he do miss all the little things we do together, such as taking long walks, lying down for star grazing and having small romantic heartfelt feelings.
Upon hearing all that, i cried because i'm so touched by all that. I can feel his sincerity and his love for me. All of it confirmed how much he loves me and cherished me. At that very moment, i feel something wet on me, and i smell tears! Yes, he's crying!! I'm SO happy when i saw that moment, even he tried to hold it back! I hug him tight and i smile to myself before telling him, I love u.
Also at that moment, only then i know there's a soft side to my bf rather than the caring side of him.
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6 responses
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
10 Oct 10
hi sanitary,
this is so sweet and i'm happy for you. now, you already have peace of mind and proven that your bf loves you more than his job. 
it now reminds me of your previous discussions about being romantic, i think hat just happen to you is more romantic that hat you saw on tv the last time. 
really happy for both of you specially for you!
it now reminds me of your previous discussions about being romantic, i think hat just happen to you is more romantic that hat you saw on tv the last time.
really happy for both of you specially for you!2 people like this
@fabsprecious (1565)
• United States
13 Oct 10
That was touching, I am so happy for you. Its true what people say, you take for granted all the things you did and had until you start to miss them or you can no longer do them. At least he had the courage to tell you and be honest with you about his feeling, not to many people could do that. I am really happy for the both of you and wish you the best of luck...
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
14 Oct 10
haha =D Your bf is really one sweet guy!! haha =D I dunno about others, but i'm certainly not one of those guys to open my heart to my gf.. lol =D It's too mushy for me to do that, and it's even worse if i've got a overly suspicious gf. haha =D Plus, there are some things, best to keep it to ourself because in an argument, everything can change and words can be used to kill.. haha 
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
lol! sometimes women needs assurance of their man's feelings for them. hehe that's why sometimes you should express and show to her how much you love and care for them.
that's just what i think and wish my husband is as expressive as sanitary's bf. lol!
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@norily (54)
•
9 Oct 10
wow.... ohhhh... so sweet... its so nice both of you.... how i wish i could be near in my hubby always... but not now... maybe next year hopefully he could go down here ... i'm so excited if that will happen... i dont know what will i do hmmm... anyway goodluck and wish you all the best in your relation.. may you have a wonderful day...
@iamdee (158)
• Philippines
9 Oct 10
Wow! That was really very sweet. How I wish my boyfriend will be as expressive like your boyfriend. If that also happens to me, I also cannot help my tears to fall. I am glad for the two of you because I can feel how much you truly love each other. True love is indeed the most wonderful gift from God. I wish you all the happiness and continue loving each other and pray for a stronger relationship each day. Challenges may come your way but what matters most is your love for each other which will never be swayed nor destroyed by any trial. It is really healthy to be expressive to our partner once in a while and be sensitive of each other's needs. For me, a hug means a lot that's why my boyfriend never fails to hug me everyday when we are together. Unfortunately, we are miles apart and I badly missed him more after I read your story. God bless!
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@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
13 Oct 10
Correct, i do miss my bf's hugs too. Especially when he's hugging me tight in his arms, i feel so nice, comfortable and secured. It's a caring and lovingly feeling. U should call your bf now, and tell him how u feel. Let him open his heart to u.
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@sweetwriter7 (19)
• Philippines
9 Oct 10
I can feel your happiness, my friend. Guys are really not hard with their emotions at all. They may show love and care in every little ways that ladies may not notice at all. Your bf's actions and thoughts you have stated here really confirms his undying love for you. I am happy he expressed it to you fully. I wish you all the best. :)
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