help me

October 9, 2010 12:57am CST
if we are in distress to whom should we turn for help,no strings attached. wheter friends,lovers or relatives ?
5 responses
@norily (54)
9 Oct 10
first.. pray... second talk to someone which is know how to listen, it could be your parents or relatives that close to your heart.. or lover... try to cry.. to release all inside of your heart.. after that.. you can feel better... so goodluck.. godbless
@Jadsta (269)
• Gibraltar
9 Oct 10
Praying only makes you feel more comfortable if you're religious though. I know I'm going to get flamed for this hehe, but as an atheist I believe that praying does absoultely nothing. It will calm you down a bit, and give you hope. It is basically like meditation you could say. It will not help you apart from that though, and "God" won't answer your prayers or anything like that. I'd recommend to talk to your preants or anyone else who may be close to you. If you can't think of anyone to ask for help, use helplines that provide just somebody to talk to and let out your stress or anger. Childline is probably good if you're young, but if not I'm sure there are many other helplines for people who need to talk to somebody.
• Philippines
12 Oct 10
You can turn with anyone who is capable of giving you a good advice and will not add to your distress. Of course you must be comfortable on sharing your thoughts and feelings with that particular person,so wether friends,family.lovers etc... you must always consider how comfortable you are with that person. Of course it's hard to disclose your thoughts and feelings with someone you're not comfortable with.
@paulybg (126)
• China
11 Oct 10
I would like turn to my best friends. For they know me much bettet than anyone else and are always good listener.
@cbraju (1)
• Singapore
9 Oct 10
If we are in distress, we can approach friends or relatives for help. If they give positive response, it is okay.
@mrlips (78)
• Germany
10 Oct 10
we should help who we can help !