Boyless? ( no boyfriend? )
@ccarabuena (442)
Cebu, Philippines
October 9, 2010 5:06am CST
Being single isn't the worst thing in life.
Always Remember:
Just because you're boyless it doesn't mean you have to be Joyless.
There are many other things more precious to be loved, They called Family, Friends and Health. Which is more contradicting in my situation now. I need my boyfriend so I can feel the so called Love. I don't need too many people for me to be happy. Just few real people who can appreciate me for who I am.
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@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
9 Oct 10
Dear Cara. Thank you for reminding me of this. I have no boyfriend but i do have many friends, many chatmates and a very supportive family. I do have to admit that loneliness bites from time to time especially at my age. I am not panicking, it is just that, i wish there was someone i could hold and that someone would call me "his" and someone i could call "mine." Am i wrong to feel this way?
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@ccarabuena (442)
• Cebu, Philippines
11 Oct 10
No, it is definitely natural for a single woman to feel that way.
I had the same feeling when I was still alone and it is also because I
had love someone from the very start and all along he was now mine.
I really pray for it to come and here he is now. I love him so much and I know
he loves me too. If not, then we are not together at the moment. I know time will come you will have someone to call your own. Just pray for it, and it will surely come! The Law of Positive Thinking! ;-)
@ccarabuena (442)
• Cebu, Philippines
11 Oct 10
Yes, it's really a choice though.
If being single makes you happy, so be it. ^_^
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
9 Oct 10
Yes I also think it is worth to alone. Because we need partner for living life. But I am not like to having girlfriends. I always like to have girls whom I will marry. Because I always believe in true relationship. And I saw many these relationship of bf/gf and I don’t believe on this.
@ccarabuena (442)
• Cebu, Philippines
11 Oct 10
Having someone a Bf / gf thing is a bad thing. I guess it is a matter on how you handle the relationship. You can be friends while your committed to each other, you can have him/ her as your bestfriend instead. So when you are really decided and wanted to settle down, there will be no major adjustment for both of you since you were being true to yourselves and that what makes the relationship last.
@ccarabuena (442)
• Cebu, Philippines
11 Oct 10
I will respect that. It is really a matter of choice. If you are happy to be single, go ahead. But if you want to have someone to spend your happiness and dreams with, look for that person.
@uchiha_L (37)
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11 Oct 10
you are right...
I'm single too... by choice. It's because i feel that i don't just need a man to be happy. When the right time comes... He will just show up. Right now... i'm busy enjoying the comfort of my family...the laughters and tears shared by my friends... the beauty of sunset and sunrise... and everything else wonderful...
@ccarabuena (442)
• Cebu, Philippines
13 Oct 10
We'll if you are happy with your choice, so be it.
If by the time you want to have someone you spend the rest of your life with, go on and have faith to find the right one. Goodluck!
