do u select friends or make friends?

@harry89 (2330)
India
October 9, 2010 5:40am CST
The meaning of selecting friends and making friends is that if you want a particular person to be your friend and make all the attempts so that he/she offer you his/her friendship or you ask them to be friends, i call it desperate friendshhp. And making friends means you dön't select a particular person you just want to enjoy with other people so you become friends automatically. So, now tell me do you make friends or select friends?
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kodukodu84
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
9 Oct 10
Of course I make friends too but not too serious If I said I do select friends means I'm not desperate but I only choose to be friends with friends who understand the boundaries between friends, respect me for what I am and what I believe as I always do to others, not being friend with me just for using me, and also must understand if I'm not able to be there when they needed a friend as I have my life, family, and troubles too everyday, those who do not talk bad about friends from their back, not complaining too much about random stuffs, and who knows how to enjoy each moment in life. I don't see any wrong in selecting friends as it is for our own good and for other people good too Have a nice day.
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harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
9 Oct 10
Yes there is nothing wrong in selecting friends only if they are also willing to be your friens. I believe we don't select friends, friends are just made automatically if you have similar interests and thinking. Thanks for your response.
Jadsta
@Jadsta (269)
• Gibraltar
9 Oct 10
I just make friends really. It's usually whoever I hang around mostly, or people who have things in common with me. I don't select friends, it's hard to explain really :)
Jadsta
@Jadsta (269)
• Gibraltar
9 Oct 10
Yeah definately :) I find it's much easier and more natural I think to simply make friends then to try and look for people to make your friends, just selecting them. When you talk to a few people, you quickly realise if they're likely to be your friends and if they have common interests, or if they're not the kind of people you would be compatible with.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
9 Oct 10
Yea, right.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
9 Oct 10
I also love to make friends as you come to know different personalities and know about their nature.. You can share your feelings with true friends. Hang around with them as you said. Its really a great experience.
Graceekwenx
@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
9 Oct 10
i am quite selective when it comes to friends as i go for quality to quantity.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
9 Oct 10
Ok, so you are choosy person. Well everyone has its own nature and choice. And it is sometimes in your hands to select your friends but friends don't come that easy. Anyway thanks for your answer.
anurag3786
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
9 Oct 10
I always male friends. Because I always choose whom person my friends who have very helping nature. So I always make them my friends. I have many friends. And some are my good friends. I think I am very choosy person because I not made friends to everyone. Because I know what is my nature and I always try to make friends of my choice.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
9 Oct 10
Ok, so you are a choosy person, it is also nice to choose a friend of your nature. Then i think you have a better tuning and much more understanding. It really help you to grow yotr friendship further more. Thanks for your response.
mustafarox
@mustafarox (453)
• India
9 Oct 10
Well I am not selective about friends were ever I go I make friends with the people there and I love making friends but I select my special friends out of those but it's in my nature to become everyone's friend..
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
9 Oct 10
Well, that's really good things that you are frank in nature. And i think you get along with others very easy that's you can make friends very easily, and its good to have that kind of nature. Thanks for your response.