marriage or not?

Philippines
October 10, 2010 3:18am CST
We had a good debate on our class last Thursday.Marriage is our topic on Ethics that time.The reporter asked something about marriage that led very warm debate about two parties.The question is,which do you prefer?marriage without love or love without marriage?what do you think?share your opinion.
7 responses
• Portugal
10 Oct 10
i prefer love without marriage for sure^^ why being married with a guy that doesnt love me? like that neither me neither him can be happy. but if we love someone and dont marry is ok^^ even we all dream to marry someday if my bf didnt want to marry me would be ok^^ as long as he loves me and dont leave me i would be happy^^ but marry him and he didnt love me i wouldnt want that at all. marry without love is very bad bcs they cant be happy like that. noone should marry without love^^
@cyrri_ako (461)
• Philippines
10 Oct 10
i would rather have love without marriage....a marriage without love won't work...
@Simon1223 (903)
• China
10 Oct 10
In my view, love is the essence of relationship and marriage is only the form. So my answer is quite definite. Love with marriage is the best choice. If I could only choose one, I prefer love without marriage to marriage without love. In the ancient times many people got married without knowing each other in advance. The aim of their marriage was only one: making babies. But nowadays love has already been the most important reason why people get married. Marriage without love is meaningless.
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 10
Hmm I don't really want to choose either of them. Because there is other possibility that is supposed to be involve which marriage with love/love with marriage. So I will go for this one. Because the fact that we can actually eliminate both of those choices you listed above, and go for your own choice which also possible to happen, and my choice is marriage with love/love with marriage (lol these are just the same). happy mylotting and have a nice day
@Karunvig (714)
• India
10 Oct 10
u shld have then added one more topic to the warm debat to make it hotter ie Love with marriage :P
@ocikca (110)
• Indonesia
10 Oct 10
mary with love thats the most i like hehe.. but if have to chose if the parthner really love me i will marrie even i dont love him. if the partner not love me or both of us didnt love each other better not. marrie is not from one site but two. if one of them have a big love to other it can be a heppi familly
@piya84 (2581)
• India
10 Oct 10
Why it has to either this or that. Marriage without love wont sustain or even if it sustains it wont be a good experience. If people are in love I don’t think so marrying or committing each other is scary thing. If love is present in relationship bond of marriage is just cherry on cake.