Selecting Friends is good character of a person? Why?

@visavis (5934)
Philippines
October 10, 2010 4:44am CST
In relationship "right selection" is the good move for one person. Some says "select and select the best" - is it right to select right girl, right boy, right friends and etc. I think, agree of selecting a right girl/boy to be with, but selecting friends - i have doubts why? I don't know? Might be I'm thinking the others that no one can select as a friend. Is it possible to anyone no friends because nobody select her/him? How about you over there? Do you selecting your friends to be with? Share with us you thought.... thanks
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@CJscott (4187)
• Portage La Prairie, Manitoba
10 Oct 10
It is said, that we are the combined average of our 5 closest friends... What this mean's is that you make about the same amount of money, have the same kind of experiences, enjoy the same kinds of things. Now, do you want to make 30 000 a year, or 300 000? Make your friends people, who you can admire and want to work towards, and it will improve your life. Sincerely and With Appreciation.
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@dwin26 (32)
• Saudi Arabia
14 Oct 10
Selecting friends? Well, i believe, depends on the one's motive. If you are in need of something, let say money, naturally, you will make friends with good bankgrounds and who is rich able, this is only one motive and there are lots of motives out there. As for me, i will not judge the book by its cover outrightly, i have to go deeper on it. I will not depend wholely my lives to my friends, but what i want is to touch the lives of others, something like to be a blessing to others. I will not be selective, if they want me, fine, but if i happen to mingle with someone, i dont care if his/her bad or good, it would be a challenge for me to make that bad person to become a good person while that good person to be more good than before. Have you ever tried to be an instrument to change the lives of others? Did you consider his character, etc.?
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
Jesus said love your enemy..... disciple said: how many times we forgive our brothers....? Jesus said 77 times.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
hello friend, I don't select friends right here and there. Friends come in our lives unplanned,or becoz we asked them to be our friends. Friends comes unexpectedly,from places and time that no one can tell. The character is out to be figured out that soon. I am not judgmental,i give every person to show their self for a matter of time and not for a short acquaintance. Sometimes the ones we left are the real ones,becoz we never give them time to prove their true identity. So,i make friends regardless of age,looks,status or religion. have a good day