you are with your bf since one month and he forget this day is special...

What is so special about one month?....I never understand these mini anniversaries. If you are worried he will forget though, chances are he will, you should instead be certain he will remember, without one once of doubt and then chances are he will. In a job, if you last one month, you just keep on working, still with the chance to get fired at the employers discretion, you need more time then that to decide to start celebrating. Just my thoughts. Sincerely and With Appreciation.

I would do nothing about it because this things in love does not matter.Me and my gf both dont remember at what date we met.Remembering things is not a love.Love means respect,care,undertstanding.If my gf forgets anniversary then i will get angry on her but at the same time i will keep one thing in my mind that i should not insult her.if i insult her then she will hurt badly and she will feel guilty for long time & we both will not be able to celebrate anniversary.Hope you agree with me.

Did you change your profile picture within the past few days? I usually dont remember peoples names on here just their picture so if they change their picture then I get all confused lol. You post sounds very much like another person I leave comments on their discussions all the time but they have a different picture I think. You kind of look similar though so I am confused lol.

I don't think you should worry. My bf and I never kept track of anniversaries. We were in a long distance relationship, and now we've been together for years. Much of the the time, what matters is that the love is real, and it doesn't matter if you're keeping track of the calendar. It depends on what kind of relationship you have though. If you're in the relationship because you enjoy the thrill of it, then it can be difficult not to celebrate anniversaries because they are part of the thrill.

what is the big deal about a month?... well if you worried if he will not remember it,...as you said his busy so just remind him about it so you won't get hurt that much...or better yet understand him if ever he forget that one month,,,cause if you will give big deal about it im pretty sure that you will going be the that would get hurt the most,. in practical thinking this is not so much important at all...

hi, if that will happen to me of course i will angry and also hurt because a small thing in our relationship has been forgotten with my boyfriend, for me monthsary is important because this is the day where we meet each other and start our relationship.

You are only in a boyfriend -girlfriend relationship and yet you worry and kinda feeling so sensitive about this thing.:) If he forgets, forgive him and do not make a big deal out of it. Men are naturally forgetful especially when it comes to remembering dates. Oh, do not expect them to remember those please because generally, they won't. Hey, I am married for three years and my husband always forget our anniversary....But just like I said, I wasn't making a big deal about it. the only date he can remember is his birthday and mine, he sometimes forget our children's birthdays as well as his father and siblings.:) Men are not simply good with dates.:)

Now that totally irresponsible of him. If he really considers you someone special for him I could say that he will never forget.

For me If he forgot I told him that you forgot and then you can say sorry and no hurt full.

Well, special anniversary might be special with both of you. But do you think your bf will think this day is extremely special for him too? For me, if my gf didn't communicate with me about a special day that she thinks special, I won't know about it. For me, to knowing each other for a month, it might not be that special, unless my gf told me about it, so I will definitely do something too.

the good thing about getting hurt on your first month is eventually you'll get used to it if it happens again in the next month sweetie.. you know for some reason, i don't know why guys can't remember these little details. it's either you get mad and tell him about it and get the expected 'sorry i forgot about it, i'll make up to you promise' answer or you forget about it and just move on because its only just a month anyway.trust me, when you're used to it, it won't matter much. i hope this isn't going to get into you which could be a cause of a major fight. you know what? my boyfriend forgot about my birthday, seriously...i waited for 2 days after for him to tell me about it because i thought he might be into some big surprise. so...i ended up frustrated. i got no greeting and no surprise. when i confronted him about it, he was like 'sorry it won't happen again'. what a sweet guy uh. so having outgrown my frustration over his being inattentive to details, i'm not anymore affected of some things he has or hasn't done.there are times i give him a dose of his own medicine so he knows how it feels. and thank god it works. maybe after some time, i'll get tired too. but until that happens, i have to bear with him and stay in love until eventually he'll learn to adjust for me.

hahah... baby ppl frgt days lik bthdy / anniversayr n u talkng abt 1 month... dont get hurt by small small things..

I do remember all the special dates till now and I never forget it and I have a special manner of making her happy first I act as if I forgot about it because I love that anger on her face and then just wishing her and the slit smile on her face for seeing that anger with a small smile with it I can do anything....

Yes i agree with you,we should remember this small things in our love life.They bring lots of happiness and increases our love.I am sad to know that your bf forgot that you completed 1 month with him.Just tell him that you didnt like this.I hope he will surely remember small things in future.All the best for your relationship.

I'm sorry to hear that, I think he has some other things that really keeps him busy. Good thing you have hold on. As for your question, if I'm in that situation I would consider why she forget our special day, she had her reasons and I would be objective to hear it. Perhaps giving a call and reminding how special this day to both of you. By the way, you are beautiful in your new avatar.

Like the first person said, I wouldn't be too worried about it. A month is not really that long of a time at all, and it's not really considered a "Milestone" in my book, anyway, for an anniversary. Six months, and 1 year, most definitely. But a month seems to be a bit of an overkill on the anniversary thing, don't you? You shouldn't be too hurt. At one month, I feel like you both are still deciding what you want to do and getting to know one another.

I would hope that my boyfriend would not forget, but it would not impact how I would feel about him. Many men forget the simple things in relationships, I am however fortunate that I live with one that makes the small things for me quite celebratory. I use to be in a relationship with a certain someone who did not even remember the big things let alone the smaller ones, it sort of show how we get taken for granted. However 1 st month totally unforgivable there after not so much.

It would be fine for me as long as the relationship is going fine. It is only one month so there are very less that I can expect from him. There may be a possibility that I will be the one to forget it actually but yes, if he forgot then I would not be angry. I will just politely tell him if I needed to, but if he's busy caring for me that he forgot the date that I would not mind Have a nice day!

i used to celebrate monthsaries. but now i think it's a load of crap. I mean, it's like you have to surpass what special thing you've done monthly? I believe in just greeting the person, but not really celebrating it like a grand event. In today's world, maybe it would be a grand event because people don't really appreciate what they have and take things for granted. Celebrate anniversaries. That would make more sense. Right now, if you base your relationship on that alone, you're just in it for the ride and not for the long run. And it's kind of selfish in a way, since you think of your personal gratification. It's a much too needy state.

O sweetie, please don't worry. You can honestly not be upset that he has or might have forgotten the 1 month mark. Carry on dating, if he is important to you a time frame and things like 1 month annevarsary does not matter, really. I forget these things, though we have been together for 10 years, I still forget. But this doesn't matter because time is precious and you might scare off a guy being so finnicky about 1 month date. There are more important things to think about in a relationship.