A nice Slap or Scolding?

@arunmails (3011)
India
October 10, 2010 9:39pm CST
[b] Friends, Here I had come again with an another sensible Discussion, I have a friend, who always make me to pinch, poke me most of the time. I use to keep scolding him. One day, I gave him a nice slap? From the next day onwards he doesn't even touches me & not talking with me as before. Now, I got a doubt that, which one brought a changes within him, my slap or scolding?[/b]
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5 responses
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
I bet it's the slap. but,i had a question in here,was it really a slap or a punch? I am not used to hear or seeing a guy slapping another guy. I know it's a punch,when guy hits a guy and not a slap. I thought that,slapping for girls...and not for guys. Just asking
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@arunmails (3011)
• India
14 Oct 10
Good. Thanks for the reply. You made the sensitive issue to the comedy one. But, it was a nice slap only.
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
i think it is the nice slap that you gave that has changed your friend. you could have warned him/her to stop doing whatever it is that you don't like him / her doing to you otherwise you might be slapping him/her as well. so i guess she did not expect the worse from you and was surprised and felt that you hitting her is the period in your friendship
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@arunmails (3011)
• India
14 Oct 10
[b]Good. Thanks for your reply. Its he not she. He continuously irritates me by pinching n poking, n thats why I gave a slap. Now I realize that I should not have done that. [/b]
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Oct 10
It would be the slap that would have made him change. A scolding is something that most people get in their lives frequently. However, it is rare that someone is slapped when they are grown and being slapped by a friend would be something that would definitely change a friendship and in a lot of situations I would also think that it would be something that was detrimental to the friendship that we are talking about. That is the reason that I think it was the slap that changed your friendship with your friend.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
11 Oct 10
your slap, that's what makes him change ... Sometimes, oral is not making changes as we want, but the violence can make it change
@arunmails (3011)
• India
14 Oct 10
Good. Thanks for your reply. Ya, sometimes. But, violence should be prohibited in one way or other.
@momof3kids (1894)
• Singapore
11 Oct 10
Your slap of course. I know because when I was a teenager, I used to slap my friends..who are girls.. at the bottom. Yes I was a very naughty girl. One day one of my friends did the same to me and I felt how embarassing it was to be the other party. I changed after that. But thats me, I realised my mistake. I dunno about your friend.
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@arunmails (3011)
• India
14 Oct 10
[b]Good. Thanks for your reply. I think it hurts him. But, I will console him.[/b]