married and firting

India
October 11, 2010 3:13am CST
flirting is quite natural. A married woman and man most of the time flirt and they do not think that they are cheating on their spouses. Is this natural tendency to flirt a nice thing if this does not inflict problems in the family?
13 responses
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
I think flirtations will always become our second nature. When we feel so comfortable with another person and we like him/her so much, the tendency is we tend to flirt whether consciously or unconsciously. Well, there is nothing harmful about it as long as you don't do things or take it to the level that you will eventually hurt your partner. Flirting is fun and well, could sometimes seal a deal but be sure to put your limitations in the right side or else will bring disaster to a relationship...
• Philippines
12 Oct 10
it is fun because it is temporary. once you get to do it repeatedly with the same person the trill, and the excitement seems to mellow, too. But that doesn't mean you stop flirting, too., only, you flirt with a different person the next time. This is true to most men, isn't it?
• India
12 Oct 10
when you say it is fun, is there not a tendency to get involved more in it.
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
flirting may lead to a deeper connection, so I think to those who are married, they should not be involve in it. It is normal to appreciate other people's appearances even when married, however, flirting is another story. That kind of feeling should not be entertained, for it may cause drift of marriage and hurtful event to their spouse and also to the one they are flirting with.
• India
12 Oct 10
that is the right thing what you have said.
@mybabe (33)
11 Oct 10
flirting when you are already married is not natural, its really a big NO NO. its really cheating your partner when your flirting and that you are married. it will really create a problem to the relationship and a cause of separation to your marriage. so be faithful to your partner.
• India
11 Oct 10
Yes, faithful to one's partner is the best thing to avoid breakups.
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
flirting is natural because we all do attracts to anyone, but in a couple. Yes, it will create conflict but depending on how the couple talk about it. For a man to flirt is natural, but hope to man that he is making sure that at the end of the day he will still think of his wife and his family.
@johan143 (164)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
im sorry but when i got married i already stop flirting. i feel secure that i already found the guy i wanna be with for the rest of my life when i got married. my husband maybe he flirts but not me. I can say that he still flirts because he has a lot of mystery textmates... anyway, my conscience is clear.
• India
13 Oct 10
Well, hope that your husband also thinks just like you
• India
11 Oct 10
it is natural due to attraction,and satisfaction level of body
• India
11 Oct 10
Though it is quite natural, won't it create problems in the family?
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
i think when you invite people to flirt with you by your actions, and by what you say perhaps... i think it may cause problems in the family when you are not able to stop anything that might go deeper... for single men and women, i'd say that flirting is natural but for married people, one should act with a lot of care and caution
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
12 Oct 10
Hi, I don't agree to this kind of situation to flirt around after married. A married woman or Man should stay faithful to their partner and not to flirt around outside. Since we have decided to get married,it means we will love our live partner for the whole life and he/she is the only one in our heart. Having flirt around may create alot of problem in the family.
• Portugal
11 Oct 10
if you flirt in an innocent way is ok. but if you flirt with someone and cheat then is other thing. but i think that flirt is normal^^ and is ok to do that but not far than flirt. but we cant say ohh i wont flirt noone bcs we never know^^ but about cheat if we are married we should respect sure^^ flirt needs to have limits. but if you flirt in a joke way or innocent way is all fine^^ but i wouldnt like to see my bf flirting with some girl actually ahah^^
@RONDOLAWE (774)
• Indonesia
11 Oct 10
alot of flirting is just has dont knowing yet if they flirting is has married or has wife or husband and its very normal coz they have not knowing at all
@ergfortes (516)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
flirting is a natural behavior of one gender attracting another gender sexually. It would not be quite okay for a married man/woman to flirt because they already have partners. But ofcaourse they could always flirt with their partners instead.
@marythan (73)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
when you settle down, you prepare yourself physically and mentally so i don't think there's a room for flirting someone else if you already commit yourself to your wife/husband. to establish a family is a big responsibility and a lifetime commitment, so if flirting is circling on your mind, it only means you're not ready to have a family. though we are humans and prone to human urges, i believe we should discipline ourselves, be responsible for our actions and be devoted on serious matters like marriage--
• Philippines
12 Oct 10
There's nothing wrong with flirting as long as it does not hurt anyone. I am happy doing that because It makes me young and refreshed. I would think of my past lover if I am so lonely then I will be happy. It's magic but it's true. Try it.