is it true that guys dont like to date much girls that are a bit chubby?O_O
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
Portugal
October 11, 2010 10:06am CST
hi guys^^ is it true that guys dont like to date much girls that are a bit chubby? about me few guys liked me even i am a bit chubby^^ but usually guys like more very thin girls. guys would you date a girl a little bit chubby?^^ about me i think that what matters the most is personality mostly but i know that for guys is also important the looks. so what you guys think?^^ please share^^ 
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
12 Oct 10
different men have different preferences. the thing it's that you have to feel good about yourself, to love yourself, to that others would love you.in this era that perfection it''s so important, most of the guys are looking for perfection...but in a realistic matter, they won;t be able to date angelina jolie for example. there are guys who like thin girls, there are guys who like woman who have forms.
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
12 Oct 10
ahah swiss^^ yes thats true they wont date angelina jolie^^ and yes i think that guys like different things^^ is true that some like thin and other ones like girls with forms but usually hot girls is what they prefer ahah^^ anyway im happy that few guys like chubby girls^^ that way i dont feel so bad ahah^^ but i will lose a bit of weight i will try^^ to feel better with myself^^
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
9 Nov 10
ahah swiss^^ i see that since your ex hurt you so much for now you want to care more about yourself^^ you do the right thing. there is no use in being caring much for guys and then they dont value us. we need to value ourselves also^^ i agree that now for awhile you care more about yourself. you deserve that really. you are a sweet person^^ why did you choose the name swissheart? ahah im curious^^
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
12 Oct 10
if you want to do that do it for you...not for them. I want to put things in order in my life...to start jogging every day, to do things when they have to be done and stop being so lazy, to help other people, to do things that I like, to get beautiful for me, to start being a lil bit selfish and think only about me, myself and I :D
@shaggin (74987)
• United States
9 Nov 10
Well being bi I can tell you I am not attracted to girls who are chubby but I think as long as the girl isnt fat most guys dont have a problem with it. Every guy is different so they arent all going to prefer stick thin girls. I cant imagine the way you look in your profile picture you being chubby. You probably look perfect and are just self concious.
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
9 Nov 10
yes shaggin i understand you^^ sure i guess that guys have different tastes but they usually like more thin girls^^ well im not super fat only a bit shaggin^^ but i want to lose a bit of weight to feel more sexy ahah 
but isnt needed that that much kilos but a bit would be good :) would be better for me to feel more pretty ahah^^
but isnt needed that that much kilos but a bit would be good :) would be better for me to feel more pretty ahah^^
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
11 Oct 10
Different men have different preferences. Just because thin is what's popular doesn't mean it's the only definition of attractive. Plenty of guys are attracted to bigger women.
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
11 Oct 10
ahah i guess that some guys are ^^ but the most part usually prefer thin girls^^ but i guess it also depends of the girl's personality^^ guys usually dont like much shy girls^^ at least i think they prefer more sassy or outgoing girls bcs they are more fun to have around^^ im shy and im outgoing too but just when know person better^^ thanks for your answer^^
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
12 Oct 10
im happy to see that some people dont like only thin girls^^ bcs it always seem mostly that guys will look more if pass a thin girl by then than one that is a bit chubby^^ im happy that you like girls a bit chubby^^ i used to feel a bit afraid that im not attractive enough :) but now im happy bcs you made me feel better^^ you and other guys that didnt mind also^^
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
12 Oct 10
ahah thats cute that your hubby likes you being chubby^^ yes not all guys are the same thats true^^ but this makes me feel better really^^ i always thought that maybe bcs i was a bit chubby wasnt attractive enough^^ but im happy that some guys like girls like that^^ i just thought that the most part liked thin girls :) im happy that your hubby loves you the way you are^^
@mustafarox (452)
• India
11 Oct 10
Well for me looks is a secondary thing the first thing which matter is the nature of the girl looks matter and even I normally like those girls who are slim but not that slim they should be some what good looking and attractive not a skeleton....
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
12 Oct 10
yes im happy that first what matters for you is the person's heart^^ and i see that you like more slim girls but not too too thin^^ thats ok^^ but im happy that you look for personality more than looks ^^ for some guys looks matter but not really to have a relationship^^ i mean it matters for a relationship but to just have fun they can date a hot girl even if she is a bit stupid ahah^^
@sender621 (14889)
• United States
11 Oct 10
We don't all like to date the same kinds of people. You have to look past the physical appearance. What is inside a person is what should be important. choices in dating are not the same for everyone. We shouldn;t judge until we know a person better.@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
11 Oct 10
yes and i dont judge at all^^ is not me^^ i never cared for appearence^^ actually this is my first bf that i think is very handsome^^ this and other guy that we were flirting^^ but i care for heart only^^ anyway i was just asking in general bcs many people care much for looks you know. thats why i asked^^ i wasnt talking about me at all^^
@chanchalchopde (361)
• India
11 Oct 10
According to me Looks matters to some extent.I look average so i would expect that the girl i am dating would be average too.But i dont think being chubby is a bad thing.I would surely date if a girl is chubby.
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
11 Oct 10
ahah thats cute that you dont mind to date a chubby girl^^ many guys just care for thin and hot girls^^ so im happy that at least some guys like chubby girls like me ahah at least cheer me up^^ and sure is normal that you care a bit for looks at least you want a girl with a sweet smile^^ thats all what we want^^ someone with a sweet smile that shows if is good or bad person^^
