Bad friendship

United States
October 12, 2010 6:08pm CST
What if your close friends to speak ill of you told your friends the other? Is one of your close friends there who like it?
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5 responses
• United States
13 Oct 10
It would surely sadden me as that person would not have been a true friend after all. As true friends will respect and honor the friendship and not tolerate someone saying something awful about their friend.
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• United States
13 Oct 10
yes he did not think how difficult getting a true friend.
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@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Oct 10
The attitude he/she showed to you is not an attitude of a real friend because a real friend will hide the things that you shared to him/her, it's only between you and him/her and she/he are not responsible to tell others about what you are. I hate people like this who destroy your reputation to others specially you consider him/her as your friend and you trusted him all things inside you. Better cut your friendship if he/she continue doing it to you.
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• United States
13 Oct 10
Yes I agree with you had better be a casual friend of a friend but he's on the other behave to us. Maybe it would be better.
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• Malaysia
13 Oct 10
I have not meet any of my close friends speak ill of me in front of others. I may have less friends but i have the best. However, I try to imagine how will I feel if my close friend did that to me. I will be really hurt, and I think I won't fully trust anyone again. I hope I will never face this kind of situation.
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
ur mouth goes blah blah...then your friends find out what your up to. actually, its easier to keep limitations than winning back peoples trust. Those kind of people never really had true friends. i had experienced having a closefriend like that. she was talking crap about me to her relatives and other people. when she had fights with her cousin, her cousin came up to me and told me everything thats when i thought shes a traitor after how i treated her so well all these years this wat i get. companions like these just lame and useless so i decided to put an end to our friendshp. i havnt seen her for a year alredy mybe this serves a lesson to her.
13 Oct 10
I had my close friend when I was in College. When I first saw her I was scared because her hair has a style called dreadlocks and she so quite at that time. I don't usually get close to a girl because I think you just make a misunderstanding because of similar likes.I used to be close to boys because I feel safe when I'm with them. When we have a Group project we were in the same group that's why I have no choice but to talk with her. After that project we were together always at the school even when we went home. I discovered that I like her companion and when we are together I always laugh and learn so many things about what is the reality about life. When we about to graduate from college she met new friends and later on she forgot about me. Then I let her go with her new friends and I was hurt because we used to have each others company only but that time everything was changed. When we have our work our friendship back like before but due to the pressure of our work we had conflicts and until now we were not talking to each other and until she resigned from our company. I don't have any news about her right now but I miss her.So sad our friendship ends like that.