do you think?

United States
October 12, 2010 7:14pm CST
do you think a man just coming out of a divorce can fall in love with a women right away.i know a lady that was having an afair with a married man.he left hes children and wife for this women and now she is having problems holding him.i tell her he will not stay around,do you think she will be able to keep him?
6 responses
• United States
13 Oct 10
Yes, I think it is possible but usually unlikely. If he wasn't really in love in the first place or fell out of love because of relationship issues then he could already be in love with the other person. All the more reason why to keep your significant other on his toes and excited. If she is having problems holding him though, he's probably just addicted to his pattern or doesn't really love her either and will move on. It's best just to not let the affair happen in the first place and move on.
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
I say no. I think it is not love his feeling right away. That woman can't keep him forever since that guy doesn't really love her but just used her to divert and forget his problems.
@picjim (3002)
• India
13 Oct 10
It will be one sided.Even if she adjusts there is no certainty that he'll mend his ways and stick with her.A person who doesn't have consideration for his first wife and children and is intent on moving to greener pastures can hardly be trusted.It will be a great effort on her part to keep him.
• Malaysia
13 Oct 10
If someone fall in love with a married person and cause that person to divorce to be together, i do not think that relationship will eork out. If that person can leave his family to be with you, someday, he will leave you for another person too. However, it does not mean that it apply to every couple. Maybe there are couple who are happy with the second marriage.
@hushi22 (4928)
13 Oct 10
unless the relationship developed before the divorce i say NO.
• United States
13 Oct 10
People who jump from relationship into another without allowing enough time to figure their wants and nots, normally do not succeed in a relationship right away. I would say if she does she will have a very difficult time.