The night I met him..

United States
October 12, 2010 10:20pm CST
The night I met him I was alone at the players party at WCG (World Cyber Games 2010). The World Cyber Games is a gaming competition that happens annually in a different country. This year it was in Los Angeles last weekend. At the end of WCG, they usually have a players party for all of the players who competed in the video gaming competitions to unwind and relax. So here I am at the players party. I was down stairs eating dinner when all of the players were upstairs getting drunk and playing games in the arcade. I was alone at the event and I didn't know anyone there so I was sitting at the bar by myself. As weird as it sounds, I really liked looking at the huge WCG logos on the screen. The bartender saw me alone and came over to speak with me. I asked him how much a drink would cost and told him I wanted the Long Island Ice Tea. He said, "Don't worry about it," and gave me the drink. I thought it was nice of him. I didn't have to pay for a ten dollar drink after all. I took a few sips here and there but that was it. I didn't want to get buzzed or drink since I was planning on driving home right after the party. Home is six hours up north from southern California. It was getting late so I went outside for some fresh air. As I was sitting down by myself, he came by and we started talking. The first thing he said to me was, "Who are you?" I thought that was funny as heck! We talked for a little bit and then his friends came by and I bailed on them. I was feeling very uncomfortable because his friend happened to be the world's best Warcraft player, Grubby. Cassandra, his beautiful wife was there as well. I was sweating bullets between beautiful people! (Laughs) I decided after taking some more videos of the party I would drive home. I brought up the idea to my friends in the Spanish team and to my friend who had offered me their hotel rooms. They didn't think driving home 6 hours was a good idea. Everyone was getting drunk and I had to make a quick decision. Leave now or later. Since my friends had offered me their hotel rooms, I thought I'll just stay over. I told one of the Spanish guys I would be right back as I had to move my car. I didn't come back. On my way to get my car, I met him and he offered me his place to stay. I was going to go back and tell my Spanish friend I was going to leave with this person but I hate goodbyes and I was half way to my car so I didn't turn around. I'm sure he was upset with me about that! When I got to his place, he was the perfect gentleman. He made me tea and even let me use his washer and dryer. As a thank you I later folded the laundry for him. He had a few clothing items in the laundry. He showed me a bunch of stuff he was doing with his life and then we went to sleep. He got me a sheet and pillow for the couch. I was extremely emotional so most of the night he played psychiatrist. I must say I feel better though. Maybe I just needed a strangers ear to release all of it! *Laughs to herself* Ever since my abusive relationship with my ex boyfriend ended, I gave up on men. Men are not as honest as you think. They all have their own agendas. I totally gave up and he changed a little bit of that. I must thank this stranger for making it a great night for me. One I won't forget for awhile. I only wished we could have continued to keep in contact. All good things come to an end I suppose. Next? He definitely had me super excited when I was at his place. The next morning he drove 20 minutes to get me food from Baja Fresh, in the rain. I haven't had that in forever! It was nice of him. I went with him but didn't get out of the car, I was really tired so I took a nap while he got the food. When we got back to his place, we had lunch and then I left. I have his flip flops and socks. Long story but I suppose he can do away with those. *Laughs* I have not had the opportunity to just sit and talk with someone for a very long time. It was very pleasant. I loved it! The night I met him was a memorable one for me. If I ever meet him in person again, I will have to thank him.
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• Portugal
13 Oct 10
why not?^^ you still remember where he lives right?^^ maybe you could just go there and thank him in person^^ he seems a very sweet guy and it seems to me that was destiny^^ what if he is the one for you? ahah you met in a random way, he invited you to his house, respected you and guys dont usually do that^^ so for some reason he was so sweet and good for you^^ for sure you should go visit him again^^ and thank him and try to be close friends^^ he is worth it after what he did for you^^ dont lose the chance to be happy and maybe more than friends with a sweet cute guy like this one^^
• United States
13 Oct 10
Wow, I really like what you had to say because I felt exactly what you wrote there. I thought about all those things but it takes two to make it work. I don't want to marry the guy but yes, I would like to keep in touch with him. It's very hard though because I don't think he is at all interested. I think I was so emotional that night, he just wanted to do all he could to make me feel better? You are so right though, it's rare you meet a guy who invites you over just to be super nice and hospitable. I am going down to L.A. in about a week or so and we're both going to be at the same event but he's already texted me a short answer and said he would be busy but he will see me around the event. Do I really want to see him? Thinking about how nice he was yes, but I don't think it's possible at this point. Oh well :)
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
That was an absolutely great night, I could say. However, many times while I was reading your post, I was wondering why he didn't ask to see you again or to ask for you number or so. Then I realized towards the end, it wasn't meant to be. This wasn't the sort of memory where the characters end up kissing and riding into the sunset. This is one of those moments in our lives when we just absolutely have a great time without emotions involved only to be remembered until we grow old. I guess after an abusive relationship, you would definitely think twice before welcoming another man in your life. I say enjoy your life! but be careful with strangers though. What could have happened if he turned out to be a serial killer, right? Just be a little more careful next time.
• United States
13 Oct 10
Hey laydee, thanks for your comment. the thing we exchanged phone numbers at the players party and we were texting each other a little bit at the party as well. We have each other's numbers, emails and of course I see him online but we just don't talk. It's quite sad actually but oh well, you are right, it wasn't meant to be. I don't want another man in my life. This is proof they don't exist, at least not for me anyways! Thank you for posting a response. I almost gave up on MyLot!
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