Do you get jealous?

@harry89 (2330)
India
October 13, 2010 10:26am CST
We know that it's in nature of all human beings that if we see a more beautiful/handsome girl/boy than our own gf/bf with his/her bf/gf then we get jealous of him/her. I am sure many people here would be experiencing the same thing. I would like to know your views about this. Do you think you get jealous in the same situation?
6 responses
uyab19
@uyab19 (112)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
i dont get jealous with that situation, physical appearance is not a big deal for some people like me nowadays, i think i feel jealous if i saw or feel that the other guy is sweeter than my partner, very kind, understanding, and all the good characters. I believe that physical appearance is just a first impression and what matters most is the good character they have and cleanliness of the heart :)
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
14 Oct 10
Yea you are right, good character matters more than the physical appearance. We should see hom loving the person is not that how handsome or sexy the person is. It's important that we be honest with our partner. Thanks for your response.
elmsquie
@elmsquie (78)
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
I never felt that kind of jealousy. I guess I am contented & I trust with my bf that no feeling of jealousy will ever take over me. Being a mature person, you will come to understand those little stupid things you used to fight over no longer matters.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
14 Oct 10
Ok, it's nice to hear about maturity here from someone. And yes we should not get jealous from others as we have selected our partner with our own wish. So we should stick on to them and stop looking around for others. Thanks for your response.
Jezebella
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
13 Oct 10
I try not to get jealous too easily over stupid little things. I wouldnt get jealous of somene with their spouse. I love my boyfriend and I find him so attractive inside and out, its not all about outward appearances.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
14 Oct 10
Well, ok thats your decision if you get jealous or not and yes we should not get jealous of others spouse. As we are the one who selected our spouse and we should be just satisfied with what you have. Thanks for your response
AjaySinghBaghel
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
13 Oct 10
Not really, I would not say it's jealousy but a comparison which is not fair to do. God has made pairs and that is best for all.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
14 Oct 10
Yea you are right but who don't want to have most beautiful girl or handsome guy in his/her life. You can say that there are pairs in this world but it's you who desides who the second person of the pair will be. I think everyone would feel the same. But we should be happy with what we have. Thanks for your response.
mlhervas
@mlhervas (482)
• Philippines
15 Oct 10
Getting jealous is a normal reaction. We get jealous when someone has something that we really want. It is fine to get jealous. Just don't dwell too much on it.
shafiqfaisal
@shafiqfaisal (1)
• Pakistan
13 Oct 10
well i think every one is special in one way or another.so if you believe in your relationship and especilly yourself, the word jealous shall not come close to you.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
14 Oct 10
Ok. Well, it seems like you are a serious person who gets into his relationship. I know that we should not be jealous but man we are human beings and i think it's in our nature to get attracted to others. Thanks for your response.