He doesn't love you if he spits in your face

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This message goes out to all the girls who are caught up in an abusive relationship. I don't care if you are arguing and he is "drunk" or "high". It doesn't matter what state he is in, if he spits in your face, that is not love. It is not anger, it is not a mistake, it isn't anything but disrespect. It is his way of standing his ground, making sure you know he is above you. You only spit at something you dislike, you spit at something you don't care for. When you spit on the ground, does it matter where it is? No, because it's dirty, it's the ground. If he is spitting on you because you guys are arguing, you better start meeting other guys real quick and get out of there. I say meet other guys real quick because when you are alone with him, you don't want to meet anyone else, he has a certain hold on you. Why else do you think you allow him to spit in your face? When you meet other guys they are a good distraction. They are talking to you because they like you obviously. Why else would they do it? Simply put, when he spits in your face, it is time you leave the relationship. Trust me on this one. From what I have learned, and I have learned it the hard way. Do not let anyone disrespect you. If they spit in your face get out of their quick. If you don't you'll feel that person's wrath sooner than you think. Can you afford a mistake like that in your life? I don't want to hear excuses of how he got so mad or he was drunk or he was this or that. Those are just excuses for someone who is abusing you and someone who doesn't care about your well-being. Would you ever spit on someone you care about? What kind of person does that make you? Anyways, the point of this write up is to let all of you girls or maybe even guys out there. If your partner is spitting at your face, yelling at you and throwing things, you better leave. NOW! He WILL hit you, trust me! Don't mistake it for love, it isn't. It's all about control and you're just an objective. Just remember, if he spits at you. You should leave without saying anything before he does damage to your well-being! He doesn't love you!