What makes a girl fall in love with a boy

@ynam29 (40)
Philippines
October 14, 2010 12:38am CST
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19 responses
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
well.it depends on the girl on how she describe herself being in love and how she wants to be treated or pampered by a boy or a man.but as for me i want to be alwaya huged and treated like baby sometimes but what is important is how the man show you his real love.helps and supports you in everything that you do and what makes you happy.this is what is important for me.
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
14 Oct 10
I have no idea what makes me fall in love iwth guys bit the thing is that I seem to only like idiots...bad boys :)). and that's not a good thing. I'm trying to change and I hope I'll make it hmm so let me figure out what gets my atention -the way he looks -his atitude -his style of dressing and then -his voice -his eyes and lips...I find them sooo sexy :D -his smile ( a man with a nice smile killssss me ) -his way of acting (if he's funny) -his culture ( if we have things to talk about) if he has all of these things I'l;l definitely fall in love with him, but for now I don't want anymore love, my last guy was a jerk, and i had enough
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@kguru1979 (381)
• India
14 Oct 10
My answer is "The way he understands you". This is very simple. All girls require a kind of holding hands and support throughout the life. So, if a person understands a girl, it will be the happiest moment for that girl which may make her to fall in love with that guy....!
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@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
I've been idealistic before. But now I believe that setting standard won't do anything if love knocks in your heart. I'm easy to get along with, and that makes me gain more friends even guys. I'm not easily attracted by physical features. But when I learned him as a guy with sense of humor, witty, and if found out that he has a quality of voice that when he sings it likes caressing your heart within, adding up with his being caring and thoughtful, there's nothing for a girl not to fall for this guy. This is regardless of his not-so good looking.
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• Portugal
14 Oct 10
aww too cute^^ yes thats true^^ even we are far away me and my bf i fell for him bcs he was so sweet and caring to me^^ he waited more than a year for me to accept him^^ he really loves me^^ and i do all for him^^ im working here to go see him in his country as soon as possible^^ i really love him much^^ he is very important to me^^ i love the way he be sad when i say we better break up, the way he smiled when i told him to learn a thailand song for me^^ the way he said he loves me and always send kisses^^
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• India
14 Oct 10
The first thing is whether the attitude of the guy is of her taste or not coz she comes to know about his attitude in the first talk. And if she likes him the story continues and the thinks you told happen thereafter.
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• United States
14 Oct 10
None of the above? lol I have always had very, very high standards for men. Extreme intelligence, no religion, dark/morbid sense of humour, plays video games, reads comic books, watches cartoons and goofy things, loves to read, loves to talk and debate, doesn't like children and never wants children, has long hair, blue eyes, skinny body, doesn't like to party, doesn't play or watch sports, doesn't have big muscles or short hair, would never join any military group. And lots of other things that I can't remember right now.
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• Philippines
14 Oct 10
i easily fall when the guy is goodlooking, neat and has appeal. If he is intelligent, has a good sense of humour, grooms well, he is educated and decent. If he is sensitive enough with my feelings. If he is respectful and caring. If he is thoughtful and generous. If he remembers special occasions such as birthday, monthsaries, valentines... if he give flowers, stuff toys and take me out to dinner even once in a while. And he gives time, effort and communication.
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• Philippines
20 Oct 10
hehehe=].. The way he look, smile, talk, the way he care, he trust, he understand, so many to say. Well a girl fall in love with a boy if that boy has a good attitude and knows to respect girls.
• Philippines
15 Oct 10
for me..i only love a somebody who deserve ...yes I have standards -a good enough standard and is worth while to be followed... yet at times even when woman set standards it so happen that we fall into love unexpectedly.. I can love a guy which is caring and is real in any aspect in life/..
• Philippines
15 Oct 10
a guy who is willing to hold my hands or fight for me..who is willing to understand me and is a GOD-FEARING 1.
@JEpisanD (43)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
For me, girl fall in love with the boy when boy have the effort to do everything just to make the girl happy, especially when the boy have the moral support in everything .
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• India
14 Oct 10
It is hard to say what makes a girl fall in love with a boy. It could be his appearance, his attitudes or his talents; anything that makes the girl attractive.
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@uyab19 (112)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
for me the way he hugs you when you feel like the whole world is against you and base on my experience when i was a child i am a loner, no one valued me, appreciate me, and when my partner comes in to my life he wants me to feel that i exist in this world, i dont know how to explain my past but the more he's on my side whether its good or bad times he's always there, and i think thats one thing the guy more aware of that, always treat the girl special treatments, make her feel that the guy always care for the benefits of the girl :)
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• United States
15 Oct 10
I think all the factors you listed there are key factors, but in my personal opinion the most important ones would have to be:
@cortney09 (1345)
• United States
15 Oct 10
It's a different answer for everybody. For me the answer was at first my husband's laid back personality and his clean cut looks. I also liked that we had similarities but also had a lot of differences.
• Malaysia
15 Oct 10
Maybe having the right chemistry draws two hearts together. But most go for the physical appearance which I think is a shortlived love. Once they come to term with the truth they will slowly detached themselves.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
14 Oct 10
I think a caring nature is making girls to fall in love with a boy. Because girls always want that a boy always caring for her and always loves them. So this makes them to fell in love with a boy. I think many peoples will not be agreed with this. But it is my thinking.
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
15 Oct 10
I think a girl falls for a 1) guy who has time for her (because in every girl, time being together is very important). 2) who listens to her 3) who is faithful 4) who calls her back even if she hangs up 5) who embraces her even if she is mad.
@rakadanda (100)
• United States
15 Oct 10
attention to us, indifferent attitude to other women, smile, the way he talks to us