Saying I Love You

@nyumix (1658)
Belgium
October 16, 2010 9:35am CST
Does your husband or wife often say "I Love You" to you? Is he or she a romantic person? Some people said that they don't have to say that words every day because they already show their love to their spouse anytime. Actually, I am a kind of person that like to say and show my love to my husband. But he is not the same person as I am. He said he prefer to show it rather than say the words without any meaning. How about you?
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• United States
16 Oct 10
I would personally love romantic displays, but that's just not what my husband is like. Although we do say "I love you" regularly. It's almost an OCD for me that we have to say it all the time.
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• United States
16 Oct 10
How's that?
@nyumix (1658)
• Belgium
16 Oct 10
I guess we have the same situation here.
@nyumix (1658)
• Belgium
17 Oct 10
my husband is not really a romantic person. Don't want to say it too often but just want to show it...
• Pakistan
16 Oct 10
yes i think saying it with feelings and showing it, both are important, because when you feel so much love for the person then you can't stop that time for saying i love you.. its the most beautiful sentence in the world, whenever my gf says me this, i really feel like flying in the air with happiness, i always love to hear this from my gf.. i also like to say it, as i found my love here in mylot, so i will also say it here for her, "I Love you soo much..." :)
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@nyumix (1658)
• Belgium
16 Oct 10
I hope your gf will read this.
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@marj22 (73)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
you are so sweet!
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• Philippines
16 Oct 10
They may not say it often, but deep inside they show their love for someone special in their life. Action speaks louder than words. Even my husband doesn't say it often, but he gives me kisses and hugs regularly. Other people view "I love you" as an abused word (some of them do) so they are trying to find a way to express their love in a meaningful way. A smile, a hug and a kiss are simple things that cannot be bought by money, and those are just simple expressions of love.
@nyumix (1658)
• Belgium
17 Oct 10
That's a good thing to share. I agree with you. And I think I should be happy with what I have.
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
i have a girlfriend right now saying "I Love You" is not enough for me to show him because for me it is romantic when you say "I Love You" with an action that can express my love to him and with meaning.
@nyumix (1658)
• Belgium
17 Oct 10
Yes, action and word are the best.
@marj22 (73)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
Remember, Actions speak louder than words...i don't say "I Love You" often but it doesn't mean i am not romantic at all. I'd rather show my love than say those words without feelings...anybody can say "I Love You" but are you sure that it's from the bottom of their heart?
@nyumix (1658)
• Belgium
17 Oct 10
It would be great if we can have both.. words and action.
@Yada25 (44)
16 Oct 10
I usually say "I Love you" everyday to my bf. He is not a romantic guy but he says it when I say it but I have to start to say it.
@nyumix (1658)
• Belgium
17 Oct 10
I think most women like to say and show their loves.
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
17 Oct 10
I often say and show that I love my husband. We always say "I love you" when we are leaving each other for work, errands, etc. Saying I love you is important but showing how much you love someone is so much more important. Actions do speak louder than words. My husband isn't really a romantic person but he does say "I love you".
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
17 Oct 10
My husband and I both tell say "I love you" to each other every day, multiple times a day. In addition, we do try to do things to show it as well. For both of us, it is the little things that count. I would much rather have him make me a cup of coffee or take out the trash without me having to ask than for him to buy me flowers or something of the nature. He would rather I do something that I know he dislikes doing rather than go out an buy him anything. For us, it is just important that we both know how much we mean to each other, and we both feel that all of the material things in the world would never mean as much as the little things and the words we share each day.
@misheli (552)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
I also prefer to show it rather than say it. Anybody can say I love you to anybody but you will never know if they are sincere and if it really comes from the heart. That's why for me even if I don't say it that often I'm showing it to my husband everyday.
@nyumix (1658)
• Belgium
16 Oct 10
I guess we really need to understand our partner so well, so we can accept him/her just the way he/she is. So even you don't say the "L" word, your husband understand that you love him so much.
• Portugal
16 Oct 10
but thats good that at least he shows that^^ about me i say it all the time to my bf just sometimes i feel sad with him bcs we are so far and he sometimes act careless i just wish that he could care more and give more time to me. sometimes i feel i do all for him but he doesnt the same back you know. for me if we love someone we should always say i love you and show it^^ both things are important^^ but your hubby is right in something that if you say i love you without feel means nothing but if you show your love the person knows it without you say the words^^ anyway both are important^^ and im happy that you are sweet to your hubby^^ me also always im very caring and sweet to my bf even we are far
@nyumix (1658)
• Belgium
16 Oct 10
Yeah, I know that he is right. But sometimes woman would love to hear it as well in special moment. I guess you will agree with me. I hope you will be together with your bf soon. So you can show and say how much you love him more often.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
We do say I love you as often as possible. This three words never fails to lighten up our moods or perks up us when we're down. I guess if a couple is used to expressing their love and emotions freely , romance will never cease!
• India
16 Oct 10
ya baby, this is reply yo your question. Do you remember one word that "All are not equal". This word relates to many or all things. Some may be of one king and some may be another kind. So, in the same way Expression by words is one way and Expression by feeling withput words is another way. If we say by words we may forget, But if they express their feelings of love in work then we cannot forget that situation. So, feel better with the expressions that ur husband has doing dear. BYE..