a girl wanted to make a surgery bcs of her bf T_T chocking please read
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
October 18, 2010 4:59pm CST
hi guys^^ i saw in google news monthes ago about a chinese girl that wanted to make a surgery to look like jessica alba. her bf used to ask her to put a blonde wig to be similar with her and she did that. anyway he broke up with her and she decided to make a plastic surgery to look like jessica alba to have him back! can you believe this? the girl was pretty actually and doing the surgery she can ruin her face bcs also she is asian and jessica alba is caucasian. also imagine that she does the surgery and the guy doesnt accept her back? can you believe this? i was really chocked when i heard these news and i went search on google more details. if you want just type in google asian girl wants look like jessica alba and that news will appear. what people do for love 
i wouldnt change my face just for my bf love me. if he loved me had to love me for who i am. and she was so sweet already using a blonde wig for him and he left her so why would she change her face? 
she is totally blind by that guy :( anyway i dont know if she did the surgery yet but she really wanted to do that. please guys share your opinions^^ 
i will put here the image of the girl. please guys look at that and see how pretty the girl is and how will she destroy her image if does that surgery =(
i wouldnt change my face just for my bf love me. if he loved me had to love me for who i am. and she was so sweet already using a blonde wig for him and he left her so why would she change her face? she is totally blind by that guy :( anyway i dont know if she did the surgery yet but she really wanted to do that. please guys share your opinions^^ i will put here the image of the girl. please guys look at that and see how pretty the girl is and how will she destroy her image if does that surgery =(2 people like this
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@emarie (5442)
• United States
18 Oct 10
They say people who do things like that have some problems to begin with. It's the same as woman who stay with the men who beat them. They think they should do anything to keep their man happy. Plastic surgery is something that therapists have to have a greater part in. People need to be mentally stable before surgery and the reason shouldn't be just to get someone to love you. Although the girl does look nice in the picture, she doesn't need to change for someone. You're right in the fact that if someone loves you, they should love you for who you are. This goes for both male and female and this should apply in all aspects from physical appearance to personality to even little annoying habits.
On a side note, Jessica Alba naturally has brown hair which he bleaches to be blond. It is part Caucasian but she's also part Mexican which givers her a more exotic look then a normal Caucasian person.
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@shaggin (71678)
• United States
19 Oct 10
You have a very good point. The plastic surgeons really should assess the patient and make sure that they arent trying to change just because someone else wants them to. That can just have bad repercussions. If they want to change their appearances because someone has always bothered them about themselves then fine but they should never do something just to make someone else happy. I doubt any plastic surgeon would ever say no I wont perform surgery on you because your doing it for the wrong reasons.
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@dapy17 (74)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
That's ridiculous! I wouldn't undergo surgery to change my appearance for my bf no matter how I love him. If he'll leave me because of my look then I don't care. It only proves that he's not in love with me.
I suggest the girl should consult a doctor.
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
she told her friends that they broke up and they advised her to make a surgery what is too stupid. what kind of friends would say that? and yes she needs a doctor and new friends that can change her mind. if the girl is influenced by her friends after lose her bf how can she change her mind if have no one else? unless her family says or do something. poor girl really 
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@shaggin (71678)
• United States
19 Oct 10
That girl is very beautiful its so sad that her ridiculous boyfriend wanted her to change so she would look like jessica alba. Thats not normal. Its not real love if someone expects you to change just so they will love you. I would love to look like that girl she is beautiful naturally. She deserves a man who will love her regardless of how she looks or who she looks like or in this case doesnt look like. She shouldnt change the way she looks just to make someone else happy because she will regret it some day if they split up and she realizes how foolish she was.
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
but shaggin they broke up. and her friends were the ones that advised her to make the surgery to have him back i was chocked when read that really. what friends would say that? and yes the girl is pretty she doesnt need to change at all bcs for sure a guy will like her. and for how she looks like. her bf bought her a blonde wig for her look like jessica yes but about surgery he didnt ask her. were her friends that advised her to do to have him back. thats crazy poor girl with friends like this who needs enemies?
i was chocked when read that really. what friends would say that? and yes the girl is pretty she doesnt need to change at all bcs for sure a guy will like her. and for how she looks like. her bf bought her a blonde wig for her look like jessica yes but about surgery he didnt ask her. were her friends that advised her to do to have him back. thats crazy poor girl with friends like this who needs enemies? 1 person likes this
@shaggin (71678)
• United States
20 Oct 10
Wow I didnt realize that they broke up and it was her friends that advised her to have plastic surgery! I thought it was the boyfriend. That is pretty crazy. What horrible friends she has to suggest she make such a stupid mistake. She needs to get over the guy and make some new friends.
@JudgeIronFist (2472)
• Singapore
19 Oct 10
Oh my she's so lovely. Why, WHY must she be blinded in love? I don't think it's worth it. To the guy, maybe he'll feel a slight tinge of feelings but it'll go away gradually right? NO! There are so many good men outside for her to choose and bases on her looks, it's not even a problem!!!
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
yes she is very pretty she can find any guy^^ anyway its her friends fault bcs they were the ones advising her to do that to have her bf back. also if he accepts her is bcs she has a different face. she will be with a guy that doesnt love her at all. also if he doesnt accept her.. i cant imagine what will happen. she really need some good advises^^ would be great if appeared a sweet guy in her life that said he loves her the way she looks^^ your answer is sweet thanks for your answer
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
hello slf,
This is amazing duh,a totally blind and insane love.
But we cannot judge anyone who can do beyond sanity in the name of love.
Well,i wish i can asks someone to have a surgery and be my NICOLAS CAGE too (hahaha)
I won't never do that,if someone loves me,he should love me for who i am and what i am.
Have a good day always
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
yes she is blind. but is bcs her friends that advised her to do that surgery. or else maybe she wouldnt. and sure we cant judge her but i wish she had better friends that could had tell her to forget the guy. that if she loved her he wouldnt had leave or would come back to her without a surgery. you like nicolas cage? ahah you watched the city of angels movie?^^ is sweet and romantic ahah you should if didnt yet but i guess you watched already right?^^ is very famous^^ and sure if a boy loves you he loves you for who you are so dont change your looks bcs of a guy^^ at all^^ have a good day too^^ 
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
hello slf,
yes,i watched almost all his movies,
i also had collections of his movies 
And yes dear,i won't change looks for the sake of being loved,he must love me for who i am.
Have a good Wednesday
And yes dear,i won't change looks for the sake of being loved,he must love me for who i am.
Have a good Wednesday
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
19 Oct 10
Hi dear,
What to tell more on this? It is proved that to 'become mad there is no specific reason is required'. Also, when we have eyes, we don't know the value. Once the sight is lost, then only we will realize the real value of eyes.
However, all are upto her. I think, the second photo is the one I like than the other one. Means, she is so pretty and good looking.
Ok, she did it. Suppose, once Jessica Alba happens to see the photo of this poor girl and Jessica is telling that, this girl is looking nice and I want to do a surgery for look like this Asian girl. Ha ha, see the coincidence. If it were happened, just imaging .....
Regards,
Thank-s
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@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
20 Oct 10
Hi dear,
I am sure about few things. If she changes her face to look like a different person, it is not going to happen exactly as it is. We can see totally a different girl neither the changed one or the changed to. We should keep a different name because, once the process is completed, there won’t be any similarity between the both, I am sure of it.
Also, I am confident that the man will not turn up to her even if she changed her facial appearance. He must be joking and if it happened also, it is not sure that he will marry her. From the experience, we know what would happen if we go for a major surgery. Michael Jackson is the best example for it. However, we can see what really is going to happen. Best of luck for all of them.
Regards,
Thank-s
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
ahah jessica see the photo and say she wants to look like the girl? would be funny really ahah^^ 
but yes the girl is very pretty. she shouldnt change her face at all. anyway was her friends that advised her to make the surgery to recover her bf. thats crazy. so is a bit her friends fault. bcs the guy might not come back and if he does is bcs she changed her face and not bcs he loves her. and if he doesnt come back she might be bad of her mind
but yes the girl is very pretty. she shouldnt change her face at all. anyway was her friends that advised her to make the surgery to recover her bf. thats crazy. so is a bit her friends fault. bcs the guy might not come back and if he does is bcs she changed her face and not bcs he loves her. and if he doesnt come back she might be bad of her mind 
@piya84 (2581)
• India
19 Oct 10
uff that title.I read it as girl wanted to make a surgery bcs of her bf chocking.Gotta me wonder how he got chocked.
Ok i got it after reading complete post.I must say she is dumb beautiful women.I saw her picture and she is beautiful indeed.But duh she changed her look because bf wanted.Thats no no!
@shaggin (71678)
• United States
20 Oct 10
I was confused by this as well piya. Then I realized that she meant that the news was shocking!! Its funny when people dont realize how things are spelled and make little mistakes like that. Then when we realize what they meant its like oooooohhhh now I get it hehe.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
no i meant that was chocking news^^ yes she is very beautiful and want to change to have her bf back bcs her friends advised her to. thats the craziest part. friends are to help us and not to put crazy ideas in our head. she was sad bcs lost her bf and they advised her that sure she kept that. i wish she find someone to advise her better and that she doesnt do the surgery^^ and sure we shouldnt change our looks bcs of a guy^^ 
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
Maybe that is true, my friend. Because the girl really love the guy and do everything to bring him back on her. But unfortunately the guy is insane and deceit her.
I think it should be that way if the guy really loves you. It doesn't matter if whatever you look like. The important thing is love...for me I love a person just as what she is...not for other things
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
Hello sweet,
That's her choice. Again, this is one of the trends in our society across. since the people made surgery in almost all kinds. People can have their face and hair change what ever they please. of course, there's always this beauty from within, but sadly not every one is just capable of loving just the way they are.
I believed it is the matter of feelings and not always the attraction on the face. we ALL get old some day, and that's a fact.1 person likes this
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
yes but it was her friends that advised her to make that surgery to have her bf back what is very crazy. poor girl. imagine the guy doesnt want her? she did the surgery for nothing also she might not even like her new face and then cant change it again but also if guy doesnt accept her.. anyway i really wish that girl doesnt make the surgery. she needs new friends, good ones that can advise her that he will come back only if love her for who she is now and not bcs of a stupid surgery
but also if guy doesnt accept her.. anyway i really wish that girl doesnt make the surgery. she needs new friends, good ones that can advise her that he will come back only if love her for who she is now and not bcs of a stupid surgery 
@santosmarichris (1849)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
Hi! So sad for her. I think she has a very low self esteem. She should see a psychiatrist before more damage is done. A real boyfriend should love you, 'just the way you are'...
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
yes but they broke up. and her friends said for her do the surgery. it wasnt her idea but her friends that said that and she followed what they said. and sure a bf will love us the way we are. and not bcs we look like the star they admire. but with friends like she has how can she have other idea? im sad that she was advised like that. she lost her bf so is normal she relied on her friends but they were bad advisers
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@mlhervas (482)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
I think she is just too blinded by her emotions and feelings that she has totally forgotten about self respect. She should just leave the guy! He doesn't deserve her at all! All he want is someone who looks like another person who he is physically attracted with. That wont last at all! 
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
they broke up already. and her friends advised her to make the surgery. so is a bit her friends fault. she lost her bf so she decided to listen to her friends to have him back. she might love him too much and will do that to have him but thats crazy. if he goes back to her after the surgery is only bcs her face is different so she wont be happy with this guy at all. also if he doesnt accept her maybe she will go crazy. poor girl. i really wish someone helps her before she makes the surgery
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
19 Oct 10
she's really cute and she kinda looks like jessica. now about what she's doing ..she's totally wrong in her decision. if somebody loves you, loves you for what you are..and accepts you with your + and -. it's normally that we try to look better, and keep our lovers attention...but we still have to be ourselves and not try to be somebody else. I think her boyfriend has problems. he's in love with an image. and that poor girl loves him so much that she would do anything for him. so if there is someone to blame here...this is him.
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
actually swiss to blame here is not only him. was her friends that advised her to make the surgery. i read that yesterday night. i was chocked like what friends would advise that? they are crazy. the poor girl after lose her bf of course would trust her friends. so how can she even changes her mind now? unless she meets someone new that can help her or else she will do the surgery. if he accepts her back is bcs she changed her face and not bcs he loves her. and if he doesnt accept her i guess she will be crazy poor girl really. bad bf, bad friends, what else? i really wish someone helps her before she make that surgery. and yes she is very pretty shouldnt change at all her face^^ and sure she could find a boy that could love her^^
poor girl really. bad bf, bad friends, what else? i really wish someone helps her before she make that surgery. and yes she is very pretty shouldnt change at all her face^^ and sure she could find a boy that could love her^^1 person likes this
@mkvalenton (58)
•
19 Oct 10
charge to experience, people I know and like me before of "gaga" over just to please their boyfriends. I was once a battered girl friend and just to please my partner, i accept the pain he is giving me and even letting him go with his girls that I am aware of... until I realize that i have to respect and love myself and i don't deserve this. I really hate those men that are i like that especially the one that he wants his girlfriend to like jessica alba. he's the one who has a problem. and I hope that the girl would realize that man she is winning over him is not that worth it.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
sorry that you let your bf humiliate you im happy that you left him. he didnt deserve you^^ im sure you will find a better guy^^ and about this girl it was her friends that advised her to make a surgery to have her bf back. so thats why she wants to do that. poor girl. she deserved better friends that really worried with her i wish she find someone to help her^^ and that doesnt do the surgery^^
im happy that you left him. he didnt deserve you^^ im sure you will find a better guy^^ and about this girl it was her friends that advised her to make a surgery to have her bf back. so thats why she wants to do that. poor girl. she deserved better friends that really worried with her i wish she find someone to help her^^ and that doesnt do the surgery^^
@Sheeny (173)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
i've visited the site and read the story of the girl who happened to have a obsessed bf. i dont know what to say, i just pity the girl. she love the guy so much in the sense that she don't know what she's doing to herself. and that boy i think has a mental problem. im not sure who is craziest the bf or the surgeon.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
well sheeny the craziest are her friends that advised her to do that. they were the ones advising her to make the surgery to have her bf back so poor girl, bad bf, bad friends.. wish she finds someone good in her life that tell her dont do that surgery. you are pretty and dont need to change at all. you need a guy that loves you for who you are and that doesnt want to change you^^
poor girl, bad bf, bad friends.. wish she finds someone good in her life that tell her dont do that surgery. you are pretty and dont need to change at all. you need a guy that loves you for who you are and that doesnt want to change you^^ @kendrathil (308)
• India
19 Oct 10
I think that she is ut of her mind. I think that there is no need to change her look for her lover for the reason that he has told her so. It is absurdness.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
he didnt ask her^^ was her friends that when they knew she and him broke up advised her to make a surgery to have him back. isnt that crazy? i wouldnt advise that to my friends at all. if he loved her he would come back bcs loved her by who she was and not bcs now she will look like jessica alba. if he comes back bcs of that is bcs he is crazy and for sure doesnt love her and she will live in a lie. otherwhise if he doesnt go back to her after the surgery she might go crazy. so both are too bad options
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@monsterfishlover (222)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
I never heard or read about this story. can you give me the link to the article?
But anyway, it's so stupid doing that. What the heck that guy have that she won't find in others? I feel sorry for the girl also but it is really a stupid thing to do. Well for the guy, i hope he got a gold d*ck for him to be loved that much 'coz if he's just a normal one and the only reason that his partner still keep him despite of the stupidity is love then it's non-sense. Both of them are non-sense.
@Sheeny (173)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
i've visited the site and read the story of the girl who happened to have a obsessed bf. i dont know what to say, i just pity the girl. she love the guy so much in the sense that she don't know what she's doing to herself. and that boy i think has a mental problem. im not sure who is craziest the bf or the surgeon.
