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@Mackenzie_jad228 (556)
Philippines
October 19, 2010 4:50am CST
Hi everyone. I just want to share some of my thoughts about relationships. I've know some people, some are friends who just married or want to get married to males with higher status in life just to rise from poverty.Even though they don't have true feelings for the person still they marry them. If you're in the situation will you do same thing? Do you think you will learn to love the person or continue to fool yourself that you love the person?
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@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
Just like a fixed/arranged marriage, some succeeded while some failed. But for me, I would rather opted to marry the one for love not because of his status. You can be happy with him and money will be earned. Money is also important but happiness and contentment can not be paid even how much money. It is taking the risk, but never can be sure that we would learned to accept the guy we married and be happy then.
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@Mackenzie_jad228 (556)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
a huh... But some says that family with less money is a chaotic family that's why some prefers to marry to a man with a status, do you believe in that?
@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
19 Oct 10
I suppose it is possible for some people but not for me. I cannot learn to love someone nor be fooled by the thought.
My personal thinking is that I have to be in love to share my life with someone.
@Mackenzie_jad228 (556)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
Same here. I wont get into relationship if I don't have a feeling for the person. And I wont bother to marry him until such time that I will hear my heart beating for him..
@RONDOLAWE (774)
• Indonesia
19 Oct 10
well the family maybe nice and happy even that some family of they not coz they have some cheat guy and girl in the first love maybe
@toniganzon (77288)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
I think it's possible to love the person if he's not difficult to fall in love with and if my heart's not yet occupied. A woman's heart is very fragile but easy to be won. The man just need to know how to do it right.
Learning to love a person is difficult if you see it as a task and try to block your mind, but if you just know how to see the good things in him it won't be difficult to fall for a man.
@Mackenzie_jad228 (556)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
You're right then, but what if I told you that her heart is already been occupied by someone else but rather chose the man with higher status in life. Well she still be able to love the man she had marry?
