What would you do if you see your boy friend date with another girl secretly?

@lxho99 (74)
Malaysia
October 19, 2010 6:45am CST
If you have a boy friend for over 2 years , but one day, if you see your boy friend date with another secretly, what would do for him ???
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5 responses
• South Korea
19 Oct 10
I will simply go to them kiss my boyfriend and tell oh honey is he your cousin whatever... then of course I can see their reaction I just hope the second girl will get angry or walk away..then after the girls walk out... I will not speak to him and leave and never see him again!
@lxho99 (74)
• Malaysia
19 Oct 10
Well... You are so smart and brave. Some of girls may not same as you, she may be keep it secret and pretend unknown, because she afraid of losing her boy friend.
• Portugal
22 Oct 10
would leave him. if this happened to you i advise you to leave him. is clear that he doesnt love you or wouldnt cheat on you :( also you dont know since how long he is cheating. imagine that more than a year he is cheating? you should leave that guy even it hurts you and find a better one later on. you deserve to be happy with a guy that respects you^^ and not with one that hurt you now and who knows if later wont do the same again
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
It would be painful to see your bf dating someone secretly. More painful when he lied to you that he is with a friend or work mate, when in fact after asking permission from you, you suddenly saw him with another girl. I cannot really tell what would be my reaction, if I will freak out and proceed to their location or just wait for the time to confront my bf. I have not been in the situation, so cannot really tell. It is painful and hurting knowing that my bf is dating another girl, how much more when you see it with your two eyes. That is cheating itself.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
19 Oct 10
This would defintely be cause for concern for the relationship. Trust would be right out of the window. I would be hurt and discouraged. i would still love this person. i just don't know that i would still want to be with them if they couldn;t be honest with me.
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
i would actually go up to them and see their faces reactions. and then ill see what hes gonna do if he chooses me or the other girl. i might confront him as well in a calm manner and it might get to the point i will break up with him.