pregnant girlfriend

@markleob (1902)
Philippines
October 19, 2010 11:34am CST
if you know that your girlfriend is pregnant and you are still in college what would you do? well, i am now in my senior year in college and my girlfriend told me she is pregnant. i cant marry her as of now since i am still studying but of course i can let her go. i love her. i ask her to stay with me in my appartment and we will live as one. anyways, i have income from my onlije job, outsourced. i know we can do it.
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adel09
@adel09 (490)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
If you do really love her...marry her...also, for the sake of your child to be...
markleob
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
yes i will but not now.. maybe after my graduation.
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adel09
@adel09 (490)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
Ah ok...as long as you do your part to her and to your baby...that's really fine...haha. I act like her parents huh...
markleob
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
it is okay.. her parents are aware of it and i am glad to say that they like me for my sincerity to their daughter... we are now living in my apartment.
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mlhervas
@mlhervas (482)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
If you are not ready yet since you are still in college then it would be a mistake if you rush into marriage. You can tell your girlfriend that you will support her financially and also most importantly emotionally while you are still finishing your study. If you love her then tell her that you will definitely marry her right after you finish your study. Good luck!
markleob
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
yeah, i told her already that i will marry her after my graduation... and she is okay with it... she also understands my situation.
mlhervas
@mlhervas (482)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
That's good to hear markleob! Good luck on your studies and love your girlfriend and your child.
maximax8
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
20 Oct 10
If you really do love your girlfriend I think that you should get engaged to her. Then she will feel that you two will marry when the time is more appropriate. She is pregnant so you should be loving and supportive towards her. It is a wonderful idea for you to let her live with you in your apartment. Soon you will complete your final year of study. Then you will be able to get a career and earn more money. Think that in two years time you could have a lovely child, a wonderful wife and a superb career. Good luck and I hope having a baby will make you very happy indeed. Sometimes like happens like a cart before the horse or a back up plan works well.
kingblack147
@kingblack147 (150)
• United States
19 Oct 10
no one can really tell you exaxtly what to do because of course in the end it is your decision. That is good that you are trying to get your studies out of the way first because you could possibly become sidetracked with details of a wedding and become a little sidetracked from school in which time your grades will suffer. In my eyes at least you are doing the right thing, you are being honest and you know you love her. You are willing to let her stay with you while you finish your education all the while working at your job online as a means to support the both of you. I do sincerely wish you the best of luck. At least she knows that you are committed to her and your future baby.
markleob
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
wow nice words.. thank you so much for this comment..
rjppotane09
@rjppotane09 (16)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
hello there markleob man... Your really a great man indeed. It's really hard to find a man who's responsible enough to handle this situation. Some men just leaves their girl helpless after knowing she's pregnant. They don't take responsibility on their mess. And that what makes them a cowardly man... Which you are NOT. I'm proud of you man!... I'm wishing you, your woman, and your baby a good life ahead!