People Usually change for two Reasons..

@Karunvig (714)
India
October 19, 2010 11:27pm CST
1. They have learnt a lot that want to change OR They have been hurt a lot that they need to change...
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@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 10
Those are quite right.So, do you change? And what reason was it?
@Karunvig (714)
• India
20 Oct 10
Have been hurt a lot :P
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
21 Oct 10
Aw, change the hurt to motivation, and you will be great.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
21 Oct 10
yh over - motivated :d
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
People do change for the reasons you have mentioned Karunvig. Although, being hurt is a way more intense motivator than having learned and change. May i also add that LOVE inspires change? actually, love and hurt are very good motivators for changes..they motivate people to do the most difficult of deeds.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
21 Oct 10
hmmm agree with u on this tht love and hurt can make u work harder... and i want to add tht Hurt is result of Love... so simple word and many discussions stop here.. 'love'
• United States
20 Oct 10
Well, I am the second, but I am not making a complete change, I am making a change for my survival. I change because I have to, but not because I want to. Truth be told, if I could show people who I really am, they might now like what they see.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
20 Oct 10
Well I have changed too.. more thn it was required and now i m nt me what i was
@shibham (16977)
• India
20 Oct 10
absolutely right.
• United States
20 Oct 10
I can think of a couple more than the two you mentioned and one that comes to mind is no choice but to change. Although we may not enjoy the changes sometimes it is what is best to do as circumstances sometimes force you to make a change.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
20 Oct 10
well thts really true tht circumstances make u change... and change may b for good and for bad aswell
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
Both reasons are right. I will just add another reason. People change because the had fallen out of love. And it's the saddest but realistic part of a relationship. You changed and the other person also changed because of you.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
20 Oct 10
Well Love and Hurt are same thing ;) and my second reason satisfy all of the reasons u have given... :)