I'm really confused

Indonesia
October 19, 2010 11:56pm CST
I have many friends among all friends is the most special for me,he's always with me when his attention was hard or I'm sad that makes me wonder why she was once a concern to me, what he's there is a will with me, really I'm confused I made, probably friends there who want to advise me what should I do on this my friend,should I make him my boyfriend? or how?
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4 responses
@maean_19 (4656)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
I think that friend or guy friend wants to get your attention. Guys are like that. When they are interested on someone, they want to impress you by showing concern and care to you. But you should be careful because when they got your interest on them and you become his girlfriend, things may change. Do not rush. Get to know him better and his real intentions to you.
• Indonesia
20 Oct 10
thanks for your advice very useful for me
@foofermen (500)
20 Oct 10
Try to make him yours, but be ready for a let down. I often accidentally lead girls on because I feel obligated to be a shoulder to cry on. I am always gentle with my let downs but still, it hurts. I have been on the receiving end of that disappointment and it is a hard punch to roll with. Life is short, go for it. It is better to have tried and failed than to spend your life wondering "what if?". Good luck =)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 10
thanks for your advice
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
22 Mar 11
Hi. kendedes2011. Maybe you should talk to him and tell him how you really feel. See if he feels the same way as you feel too. By then, you will have your answer as to if he wants to be with you in a more romantic kind of way. I hope that everything works out fine for you. Take care.
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
7 Nov 10
as a good friend, I concern to you