Good deeds

@MsTickle (25180)
Australia
October 20, 2010 5:35pm CST
These days find me working as a volunteer driver. It's not really a job because I thoroughly enjoy helping people. I take the elderly or disabled to doctor or specialist appointments in bigger towns or I take them shopping. We live in a remote area so it's a very necessary service for those who cannot drive themselves for some reason. My clients are very grateful and appreciative and it gives me a really good feeling to be helpful and to do a good deed. I'm greeted by my clients like a good friend when I run into them. Do you ever do good deeds? Have you ever volunteered anywhere? I'd love to hear your experiences.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
21 Oct 10
SOunds fun. The only volenteeringwe do is havestay with us till they can get on their feet. MAny has slapped us in the face when they have been gone for awhile now we are getting a nephew of my Son in law going to be with us staring next week as grandma he is staying with is going back to Tenn. to help with a great grand baby. He dont have a job right now and seems like grandma would take him to places we told him for she was short on gas bad scene there I would say.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
22 Oct 10
I hate being lied to I dont do it and I dont want any one to lie to me. WE have had to cut 2 people out of our lives all together no help for her when she keeps going back to the wife beater and he got let go along time ago. THing about this lady going back to take care of baby we have seen how she takes care of one. as she had one here with us for about 6 months and she wasnt gentle. I just told her hope this baby didnt sqirm around like the other one did,
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Oct 10
You are very good opening your home to people the way you do. It's a shame when they turn around and kick you in the teeth. One of my clients was a bit that way...lied to me all the time. I could not get them to understand that they didn't have to lie.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
24 Oct 10
Oh golly, that's a bit of a worry. I hope things go okay.
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
24 Oct 10
That is really great of you to offer your time to the needy like that. I have never volunteered for the needy in the community like you have, but I do volunteer loads of my time for the archery club that I belong to. I have been on their committee for the last four and a half years, most of this time holding down multiple positions. At the moment I am the club secretary as well as the promotions officer, so I built the website for the club and maintain it and I am often the first point of contact for the club so potential new members are always ringing me and emailing me. I am only holding two committee positions this year, but I have held three for the last two years prior to this one. I tried to get someone else to become secretary but I just cannot get anyone else to do it. I am also the sports convenor for the Field Archery event at the Pan Pacific Masters Games which is being held at our club at the start of November. This takes a lot of my time as well. It becomes too much at times, but I just keep doing it as their is no one else at the club as qualified as me to do these jobs.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
25 Oct 10
Being capable and I've come close but not close enough to get caught...I'm very wary these days. able can sometimes mean getting trapped ...eh mate. That sounds like an awful lot of work for one person...bet you're brilliant at it.
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
25 Oct 10
Yes! At times I do feel trapped by the position I am in. I want to see the club prosper, but not at the expense of my family time which it can get in the way of sometimes. Occasionally I feel like throwing it all away, but I know the club will suffer if I do that. I would not call what I do brilliant, but some others seem to think I do a brilliant job for the club.
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
21 Oct 10
You are really doing a good deed helping these people get around. I know that older people can have lots of doctor appointments and even if they still drive, they may not want to drive that much or that far. I have an uncle who does a similar thing, although he might get paid a little. My volunteer hours are not really that significant, whereas my wife and daughters have done many things. The one volunteer thing I do is play in a community band. This band is a service to the community and our annual 8 - 10 concerts are given as a way for people to enjoy music and feel good.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Oct 10
Oh that would be great! It would be fantastic to have the ability to play a musical instrument...I have often wished I could. That must be a great thing to be able to entertain others as playing or listening to music is such an uplifting entertainment. I'm very lucky because while I volunteer my time, my car costs are covered and I get lunch money if I am to be away a significant length of time.
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
21 Oct 10
Well, it is really good that they cover the car expense because that could add up in a hurry. I am glad that many years ago I learned to play the trombone. After high school I put it down for many years, which I kind of regret. At least now I have the opportunity to use it again. Trombone isn't a great instrument for solo work, but it is fun being part of a band. The music produced by a band is far more than any individual could do, regardless of the instrument. Have a wonderful day!
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
21 Oct 10
MsTickle ,I was doing such services for about two years until I met with a fall down in my business.After that I have not done much. Even now if I can do something within my capacity I will try my best to do it.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Oct 10
I'm sorry you ran into some bad luck vijayanths. What sort of business do you have? Many people think they have no opportunities to help but if you keep your eyes and ears open there is always someone somewhere who is in need. You're a nice man and I'm sure you are most helpful whenever you have the opportunity.
• India
21 Oct 10
I was into fabrication and supply of machinery and tools. thanks for the compliment friend.
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@quita88 (3715)
• United States
21 Oct 10
I think what you voluntarily is great and not boastful at all. I too have been helping a young boy with a project in school. He takes a social sciences class and somehow he "forgot" to do a 9 week project on social sciences, so here I am across the street on this computer, helping him find information. I know it's not the same as you do but if it helps him make a better grade,then why shouldn't I ? I have enjoyed our little "classes" probably more than he has ! but still we are learning together and to be honest, not boastful , I think I could home school him and his buddies and help them even more .........if they'd take the time !!! Hey, mstickle, you go girl !! hugs, quita
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Oct 10
Actually what you are doing is FANTASTIC my girl. I can drive but my attention span doesn't work too well for teaching but how good would it be if you could do that? I'm sure it would be of great benefit if you could home school a few kids...is it possible? I think an education...even an education that isn't so great or if you have difficulty learning is still a GOOD thing...so much better than no education at all. Super hugs to you for you wonderful generous spirit.
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
25 Oct 10
Hey LADY !! Thanks soooo much for the best response!!! I don't think I did a good job with the boy tho........he just looked at me when I tried to give him advice or suggested he think.........I don't think the boy has a chance. He needs a special teacher and tho I really think I could help him if his parents would let me but they are too gung ho on horses, rodeos, etc. I do thank you for the kind words!! I did try tho..........and my own attention span was much better than I thought LOL I am the one who learned LOL, never in my life have I have physical sciences and believe me this subject makes ya think!! I do so appreciate you and your kind words but girl, we all do as our talents guide us.. You drive, I study LOL, wanna switch !!! Ok, once again thanks :) hugs, quita
• United States
20 Oct 10
I have many times also and I know exactly what you mean by the feeling of contributing to others needs. This week I also have volunteered my time where as I have been driving a friend at 6:30am to a physical therapy session daily, which means I have to be up at 5am to to and pick the person up and then drive them back further my way south. Then I return at 3pm and drive the person home. It has been a bit exhausting but I do feel quite proud that I am contributing to this person's recovery. It has interrupted my daily routine for the week, but the smile on this person's face each day this week has been a sign of complete gratitude.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Oct 10
Hello there...well done you. I know how you feel. It's an amazing thing to be of use but even better to be able to help someone. The client I mentioned earlier has a 9:30am appointment and in good weather I need to be up at 4:30am to be at their place by 5:30am. It's a 30klm trip from my place to theirs and the road is unsealed and in rotten condition in dry weather. There is also the danger of the kangaroos on the road just before and during sun-up. I'm exhausted when i get home at 5 pm but I am filled with a great sense of achievement. My client is an older middle aged chappy and his wife goes along as his carer and they are the most amazing couple and I really enjoy their company. He is having his eyes seen to each time and on a bad day he gets a needle in his eye and she has bad knees but they never complain and I just love them both.
• United States
21 Oct 10
You are such a great and helping person.
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@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
21 Oct 10
In the past few years my husband and I have volunteered for many things. We have coached little league sports. I have served on the city council. I have served on several committees within the community as well. I enjoy doing things that help others.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
22 Oct 10
I'm now on the committee of the organisation I work for...I hope I do ok...I'm a bit nervous. You two sure do keep busy with the things you do. What was being on council like?
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
24 Oct 10
Hi MsTickle I am glad that you are doing something that you enjoy I can not do anything like that as it would be classed as working here But I help in other ways like where I can like when I used to visit the old Lady who had Alzheimer
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
25 Oct 10
That's the beauty of it Gabs. It's not classed as working. I don't have to pay tax and I don't even have to declare what they give me because they are the costs of running my own vehicle and my out of pocket expenses. It's all legit and above board. Being useful is the best bit, being able to be of help to others is great. I thought I might not be well enough to do it but I am.
• United States
20 Oct 10
Five years ago I was in a nursing home learning to walk again after breaking my back in an accident. The prognosis was slim if I would ever walk again but I was determined to be able to go back home and care for myself. I amazed myself and the NH staff when I was able to go back home in 4 months. It took a lot of hard work and determination to succeed. So now I volunteer to motive other patient with my story. So many of the patients just give up and accept their fate. I try to install some hope in them.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Oct 10
Once again your story has amazed me my friend. Only someone who has gone through the same experience can really know what the issues are and be able to show empathy for those who are so afflicted. Do you talk to the patients or help them with physical therapy as in cheering them on or encouraging them as well? Have you had much success. Hope you are doing well..
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 10
Thumbs-up for you for all the kind deeds you rendered to those needy people who are only too happy to have you in time of their needs. You might not expect a reward for doing all the voluntary works but God is watching you and every good deeds you do on earth will be rewarded in kind someday from God's bounty. It might not be a free ticket to heaven but definitely it is a great blessing for you and your loved ones. I can't think of anything good that I have offered myself to the public yet but given the chance I will definitely be available to work on voluntary basis.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
22 Oct 10
Sometimes a good deed doesn't have to be work or a job of any sort. You may extend a hand to help someone or offer a kind word or elicit a laugh from someone, thereby giving them an opportunity to be happy and maybe help them over a hurdle, either real or metaphorical. I imagine you do these things all the time to those around you Zandi. I'm sure you do much without even realising.
@ellie333 (21016)
24 Oct 10
Hi MsTickle, That is fantastic to hear that not only are you helping people but really enjoying it too, I should imagine it is very rewarding. I have worked voluntary in charity shops in the past and have helped on floats to help raise money for causes, I help people when I can, in fact yesterday and today I took rubbish to the tip for a non-driving friend. If I didn't work I would do more charity work, I also clean the local church on my day off. Huggles. Ellie :D
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
25 Oct 10
Hi ellie dear...you don't do too badly yourself. Apparently there is a fair bit of fund_raising that goes on for the trips away that I mentioned in another response. I'm sure I'll be roped into that sometime soon as well.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Oct 10
hi mstickle the only good part when I was wor king ou t of a nurses registry as a nurses aide in working in nursing homes was the older people who like I amn now were lonely or just there as events had made them homeless. but here where I am living for now is not a nursing hone. Most of us are able to get around and are on the go if we have the mo ney and any place to go to. no the nursing homes were dreadful and most poorly run and staffed by a lot of people who were little more than morons themselves. The older people were always so lonely as a lot of relative always had something else to dol but see their moms or dads or aunts or uncles.It made me feel so good when I could do anything to make an elder smile.I was in my fifties myself and dreaded that stench of stale urine and feces that so many of those plac before breakfast and a lot who need help for testing blood sugar, at this time they were still just testing the urine,they had not developed glucometers for blood testing. We managed to get everyone ready for b reakfast and by then the regular day stay had all arrived.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
22 Oct 10
How horrible that all sounds dear Hatley. Times were hard then. I remember being taken to an old people's home when I was a girl of about 12...about 46 years ago. I remember the old people were all quite well dressed and there were lots of people helping. I had the idea that these were not poor people but rather affluent folk. For all that, I remember a smell and it was awful. I know the elderly lose their sense of smell while retaining most of their other senses so that would explain things a little. Seems to me that someone must not be doing their job properly if the place is smelly. It's sounds like you had a huge job with few rewards in spite of all you were doing.
@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
22 Oct 10
Wow! Ms Tickle that is something so marvelous to know. You must be blessed by so many in one single day, everyday. Yup, I know it feels good to do an unselfish act, to be able to do something for some one. Keep up the good work and stay blessed always!
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
22 Oct 10
Oh bodhisatya, that's so nice of you to say. Thank you. Brightest blessings to you too my friend.
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
Having a good deed is one of the best thing that we can do in our life. don't expect that your are special to others but others special to you by making good deeds, it will us to make more friends that we can lean on in times of troubles or anytime we need. I humble saying that i always do good deeds for somebody.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
22 Oct 10
But I AM special to these people. What I do is immensely important to my clients because if this service was not available they would either not be able to get to the doctor or hospital or it would cost them a couple of hundred dollars to get someone else to take them. They are very grateful to me and we have a lot of laughs on our trips. They have a good listener too if they want to talk of their troubles. I would never make friends with someone just so I can lean on them in times of trouble. I think that is entirely the wrong attitude. Try to think what you can do for those in need without expecting anything back in return.
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
20 Oct 10
Oh , you are doing a wonderful job. You have my full admiration and support. I am sure the people who you are helping appreciate your help so very much. Whenever there are things I can be of help in the community where I am living, I try my best to helpful too. Seniors and disabled people certainly need help.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Oct 10
Thank you so much. I truly love what I do. The organisation had their AGM yesterday and I became a paid member and was voted in as a committee member so I will be able to give my support now to the staff who run the different aspects of the organisation. Though they are paid workers the job they do is incredible. It's very demanding and they are totally dependent on funding so it's complicated too. They are such a hard working, creative, committed, clever bunch of down to earth people and they have had a huge influence on me. Helping in the community this way has changed my attitude to life in a really good way.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
21 Oct 10
good for you sweetie. when i was working for the elderly, i would sometimes go after my job and visit some i knew that had went on to nursing homes and was in the hospital. just to keep them company because i knew some day id be like that if i lived that long and a couple of them had no family.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Oct 10
I was happy to see a lady at our local nursing home who was talking to one of the residents and keeping her company. I don't know if this was a staffer or a volunteer but I was really pleased to see her sitting with the lady, who is actually a friend of mine. I was there to visit her and another friend, just a quick hello, how are you. My friend was chatting away quite happily and it was good to see. Sadly, neither of them knew me. I find it a bit hard to visit for long periods as I find it too distressing and I find if people don't recognise you they get a bit anxious if you hang around. Too sad.
@maezee (41997)
• United States
21 Oct 10
Well.. I volunteered for about ~6 or 7 months, once (SOMETIMES twice) a week, delivering meals (meals on wheels) for an organization called Open Arms. Me and a friend would get together once a week and it felt really good to do. Now I've been working full-time, and she's going to school and working part-time and we literally have NO time to do this anymore! The delivery hours conflict totally with both of our schedules. It's kind of sad.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Oct 10
That's a great job. I'm too far away to do our Meals on Wheels but the guy that does our mail run brings out the meals frozen and then they are distributed. It's such a worthy thing to do and it might be the only contact those folk have each day. Too bad you can't do it now but perhaps some day you will get the chance again. Huge pats on the back to you!
• United States
21 Oct 10
Unfortunately I have to say that no i have never volunteered aywhere or for anyone. We also live in a smaller area and often say that their needs to be some sort of service whether a company does it ir an indivual it would both help out the ederly or disabled and also give a few jobs to some locals...we now have a CATA bus that will drive anyone around for a few bucks but it doesnt take them out of town. I think what you are doing is a great thing especially in todays economy *Pat on the shoulder to you*
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Oct 10
We used to have a bus that cost $700 a time. It ran once a month taking folk shopping but only about 12 people ever used it. It cost $15. It was not used enough so it was decide to drop it and offer a shopping service for those who needed it as well as the hospital and doctor transports. It's not needed all the time and we are down to only 2 drivers and I also do the next town because their driver is unwell. The thing is, even if people drive, if they are ill or getting some sort of treatment whereby they can't drive themselves then they need help. It's a vital service in these small remote communities. Thanks for the pat.
@hushi22 (4928)
20 Oct 10
so nice to hear from you friend. well, to write this up is to inspire people and not to boast, right? yes, when i was a volunteer nurse i tried my best to accommodate patients esp those who are less fortunate to the point that some of our colleagues spend money for their treatments. =)
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
20 Oct 10
Oh dear, I didn't mean to sound boastful, just trying to share a big part of my life and what makes me happy. If i could inspire one person to do a good deed where otherwise they did not take action then that would be a good thing.
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
I admire your good deeds. Good for you! Whatever good you have done for others are highly appreciated by the recipient including God as well. It gives our life meaning when we do these acts of kindness. I am volunteering as a Sunday School teacher in the church. The children's response and the change lives are enough to encourage me in continuing with this. There are ups and downs(who doesn't?) but if it's your "calling" then it is. The smiles and hugs from the kids as well as the occasional pat on the back from parents and other church members makes my day. So it is something that you give and you get something in return in a not so material way.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Oct 10
The people I meet are a gift. I'm very lucky in that those I have helped so far have been mostly pretty amazing. Good for you to volunteer at a Sunday school...now that's something I could NOT do. I like kids and they like me but I don't really enjoy their company. My bad.