I just wan to be a friend not as a good friend...

@alokijon (665)
Malaysia
October 20, 2010 7:17pm CST
I met somebody during a course. We happened to be in the same group. Well, I am being a friendly person just trying to be nice to everybody. I just want o be friend to anybody. I do not have any intention to make them as my good friends. Unluckily one member of our group seems that I am already his best friend. Call me for dinner etc, saying one day maybe he can hang out with me and so on. I feel funny because I do have my circle of good friends. Yes, that fella is a good person , it is just that I feel that we do not have that so call 'chemistry' to be a good friend. Have you ever experience this also?
3 responses
@CTHanum (8233)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 10
I have the same experience when i was in high school as suddenly a girl from nowhere came and introduce herself and frankly said want to be my friend but like you i don't feel the chemistry between us but we still be friends till the end day of high school. just a regular friend. Up till now i am not consider her as my best friend because she see me as her competitor in every aspects.anyway i am feel proud of myself as there are people who like to see me as their competitor.beat me if you can! anyway i think someday i will eventually consider her as my best friend but i do not know when it will happen~
@kodukodu84 (1567)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 10
Haha, I have experienced the same situation as yours in the past. But one mistake you made here is you made the person able to contact you, did you give him your phone number? Since it once happened to me, I never gave out my contact number any more, I also don't add them in my Facebook Not to be mean but I don't want my friendliness to be taken too far. I understand your intention to be just friendly with everyone but some people are too fast...well you know what I mean. Just give a polite reason, just say you have a meeting with a good friends you know, it is not too difficult to say that straight if you really have no intention to go further than just a friend
@JEpisanD (43)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
I haven't experience that one. I have my best friend and we have this so called "chemistry". We hang out together, and sometimes studying together. We can understand each others "foolishness". There are times that we misunderstood each situation but, we settle it right away.