is it hard to find love?

United States
October 22, 2010 9:38pm CST
im a single mom living in a small town and it seems impossible for me to find love. im not that picky but i do have some standards. is it hard for anyone on here to find love? and if it was and u found it was it worth the ups and downs?
8 responses
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
You don't need to find love, girl. You just need to wait for it to come. Just make sure you'll open it when it knocks your door.
@Rhazelle (356)
• Canada
23 Oct 10
I never found it hard as long as you're open-minded and accept that some people who don't necessary fit all your standards might actually be great in so many other ways. Iunno, I'm 18 and I've found love a few times already, though some of them obviously haven't worked out. But the one I'm with now we are in love with each other and are thinking of getting married, so... Just keep your heart open to everyone :3
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
23 Oct 10
I have not found love and never will. It is hard and every time I did meet a man he turned out to be a loser. I gave up dating 17 years ago. If I wanted to try finding someone it would have to on the inertnet or going to the bars. Not going to happen! I rather be alone then in a lousey relationship! Men aren't worth it!
@abj163 (1037)
• India
23 Oct 10
i think i am too young to understand your problem....i am 19 now and i never had problem to find love because i didnt tried to search it......i am still single and never been in a relationship.....everyone's life is full of ups and downs ..so dont worry about it.. one day you will get your perfect one ...all the best...
• Philippines
23 Oct 10
I say yes.. love is hard to find .. though it's present around but then again you can't appreciate it if you can't get to it... love ? there so much to say and words aren't enough..
• Philippines
23 Oct 10
Don't find love. Let love find you. There's a right time for that. Just believe on your self. I'm a picky person but I found my true love in a wrong time because I was too young that time "teenage". I had a lot of single mom friends. But now most of them they got married again.
• Philippines
23 Oct 10
For me, it is not hard to find love.And as a woman, we are not responsible to find love, let's just wait for someone who's willing to search for us, who's willing to accept us, without hesitation, without envy, judgment, just pure acceptance and respect.
• Philippines
23 Oct 10
I experience having a girlfriend before..... but before that i think its yes... it is difficult to find love... there are some dos and don't...but it depends on the standards of that girl.