force a break up

@snowy22315 (170469)
United States
October 23, 2010 10:39pm CST
Did someone ever break up with you by acting nasty, then you asked them if they wanted to be with you and they didn't say anything, then refused to do something with you the next day...forcing you to be upset and break up with them, and then blamed you for it. Has anyone ever faced a situation like that?
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@beeh13u (1038)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
Well yeah I did. I mentioned a couple of times here in mylot that my boyfriend left me a week ago. He kept on changing the reasons. He told me he didn't want us to be together because of my father. But he told my friend that I acted weird lately. he told another that he needs to focus on his study. Since he had plenty of reasons, it pointed out that he really doesn't want me. It is very painful. Unfair to me, since I accepted all his flaws and I always tell the truth to him.
@snowy22315 (170469)
• United States
24 Oct 10
Whatever the reasons it is not right for someone to act that way to you and then act like you were the one that wanted to break up with them. Honesty is the best policy. It is also bad if they refuse to discuss it with you.
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
Well, if he really loved you -- he'll accept you and try his best to get along with things. Don't worry, it's really unfair. It's his own loss anyway. :) Hope this counts!
@ElicBxn (63252)
• United States
24 Oct 10
I've done all the breaking up, so, no...
@snowy22315 (170469)
• United States
25 Oct 10
I did the actual breaking up as well, however, I feel that I was forced into it.
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@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
24 Oct 10
I can't remember a time where I have been faced with anything like this. But it is possible it may have happened when I was younger. As a young girl I didn't really have many boyfriends and I did settle with my high school sweetheart.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
I never experience this things yet but it was so rude actions. i hate this kind of break up like we are nothing and scrap. When it happen to me I will never ever talked to him and dont want to see him in my life.
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
24 Oct 10
Not exactly the same. When I was younger, I went out with a guy who pretended to be such a sweet person, clean, and everything. A month later, I found out that he is not a very clean person, he mostly depend on the perfume instead of a proper bath when he goes out, his head is full of gel and so much more, but he was really in love with me. But if you really like someone then you should know how to bring yourself around. I told him I had not fallen for him, I only knew him for a month, but he started saying this and that, we went out for a month together and thought it was serious you know ugh! I told him to never see me again right away, though he tried for a few more months but I keep on doing something to force him to hate me LOL. I was only a kid Other than that, no one ever did that to me nor I did that to someone. Have a nice day
• Portugal
24 Oct 10
didnt happen to me. sorry if that happened to you. you should forget that guy really. or at least talk with him and say that was his fault. he broke up with you, didnt want to be with you and blamed you for your relation to end? but was him that broke up right? so dont care for what he says^^ you deserve to be happy with a guy that loves you and respect you and not with one that doesnt value you and accuse you. talk with him one last time if you want and see if things can be solved still^^ wish you the best^^
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
I have never experienced that in my whole life. Though if someone s brave would do so -- I'll probably notice it anyway any sooner. Though I will never tolerate it. If he doesn't like me anymore, then okay. I understand. No need to look stupid infront of other people trying to figure out a way to end the relationship :D It hurts so in return, I wouldn't talk to him or just act like there's never been anything between us. :) It's his loss anyway. Cheers and I hope this counts. --Jaja