did you ever regret to break up with ex lover?^^

Portugal
October 24, 2010 11:57am CST
hi guys^^ did you ever regret to break up with an ex lover? ^^ about me i was a bit undecided when i left my last ex bf. i knew that he loved me but i didnt have a choice. he was always making me sad and cry so i decided to let him go. but i have to say that in the beginning i wasnt sure if i made the right decision or not. i accepted my new bf bcs i loved him now but was still thinking if i did the right thing or not bcs was afraid that things didnt go well with him and i lost my ex already. so i was a bit worried. what about you guys?^^ did you ever regret to break up with an ex lover? why? if not why you dont?^^ please share^^
4 responses
• United States
24 Oct 10
Life must be perceived with no absolute regrets. I have had the misfortune of always been the one hurt after being in what I though was a loving relationship. So with time I do understand and get that it truly was not for me. So I never live with regrets, I take everything as experience learned.
• Portugal
24 Oct 10
sorry that you were the one getting hurt but you are right^^ we must take that as life experience and not regret nothing^^ you are who you are and if they left you was their loss right? ahah anyway now you have a great bf so the other ones left you brought a good thing into your life right?^^ ahah so you can be happy^^
• United States
24 Oct 10
Absolutely so I do have to thank them and so does my current boyfriend. If it were for them he would not be with me now.
@beeh13u (1038)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
I never broke up with my ex-boyfriend. They broke up with me. Lol. but it hurts. It doesn't mean something is wrong with me. I just hold on to them and accept their flaws. I understand the reason why they ended up the relationship. I cant give them the time they needed since I am not allowed to date. I am really hoping that someday, I'll be free.
• Portugal
24 Oct 10
im sorry that they always broke up with you is sad that they had to break up with you bcs you dont have time for guys. im sorry that you are not allowed to date i guess that you still live with your parents and have to do what they say right? anyway you can date a guy without they know about that^^ you deserve to be happy and to find love ^^ then your life will be better^^ your parents should be more understanding. sorry :( wish you be happy soon^^ if you want to talk about your problems just message me^^
@hushi22 (4928)
25 Oct 10
when i had a break up wtih my first bf i kinda regretted it for the first few months, but when i was able to cope up i said to myself it was a good decision.
@coollady9 (143)
• Indonesia
26 Oct 10
When I broke up with my x boyfriend, I didn't tell him it was the end. He ran away from home. His mother called me asked me about him. I told her I didn't know where he was. Honestly, he was a handsome man, honest and sweet. But I didn't like the way he treated me. When I heard from his mom that he ran away, I felt so guilty and regret it. I really wanted to find him again and sent him back to his mom. But I couldn't do anything. Ever he called me, but I couldn't say anything.