My mother hate me

Philippines
October 25, 2010 9:51pm CST
Last week I went to a place and I don't talk to my mother that I will not back in the house for just 1 day. I forgot to do it because I am very exciting to have good trip with my friends. My mother was very concerned with me that's why she try her best to find me and she found that i only with my friend and when I'm go back to our house she really angry to me and she don't talk to me and it is alredy 3 days but still dont talk. What should i do that my mother will forgive me? Please help me guys.
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5 responses
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
26 Oct 10
Your Mum was worried and anxious about you being missing. She doesn't hate you but she is cranky because you were selfish and thoughtless by not coming home. Tell her you realise you were thoughtless and you are very sorry. Show her some maturity and show her some remorse. Do something for her that will please her. All these things will show her that you are growing up and becoming an adult.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
26 Oct 10
You just do it my friend. You gather your courage, pick the moment when your MUm won't be distracted and then you talk to her ...like you would talk to a special friend. Your Mum needs to hear you say these things. I know it's hard but it's important as you become an adult that you keep the ines of communication open. It's a sign of maturity. Good luck friend.
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• Philippines
26 Oct 10
Hello mstickle, I think you are right but i am afraid to talk to her personally about my feelings that i am regret of what happened. I am really not use to talk with her. What do you think the best way?
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• Philippines
26 Oct 10
I can't blame your mother for doing that on you. It's your fault, you must apologize to her and tell him the whole story, nothings gonna change if you both don't talk. I know your mother will understand, but it could take a week before she calms.
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
26 Oct 10
Go hug her kiss her and say "sorry". all her anger will melt like a ice, that is the mothers heart for children feelings. Also tell her that you lover her more than your friends.
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
Hello samson1967, Maybe i try it but i am afraid that she will only push me away from her.
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
You made her worry for you went missing just for one day without letting her know where you went. Try to put yourself in her shoes, you will know how it feels to be a mother when your child is missing and doesn't tell you where he/she went. You need to sincerely apologize to her and tell her that you won't do it again.
@hushi22 (4928)
26 Oct 10
just give her time to get over it and so something special for your mom.make her feel that you are sincere with your apology.
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
Hello hushi22, You are right and I will do all my best to show to my mother that i am sincere or has a genuine feeling to apologize to her. Have a nice day.