in wedding day u want to write ur vows and memorize it or say in the moment? ^^
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
Portugal
October 26, 2010 8:52am CST
hi guys^^ 
in your wedding day you want to write your vows in a piece of paper and memorize it before the day or you rather say in the moment from your heart looking to your lover's eyes?^^ about me i want to say in the moment looking to his eyes ahah^^ is more special for me^^ and i wish he does the same ahah^^ is more cute and romantic saying that moment how we feel^^ 
what about you guys?^^ how do you want things to be?^^ please share your opinions and dreams^^ 
in your wedding day you want to write your vows in a piece of paper and memorize it before the day or you rather say in the moment from your heart looking to your lover's eyes?^^ about me i want to say in the moment looking to his eyes ahah^^ is more special for me^^ and i wish he does the same ahah^^ is more cute and romantic saying that moment how we feel^^
what about you guys?^^ how do you want things to be?^^ please share your opinions and dreams^^ 2 people like this
8 responses
@Karunvig (714)
• India
26 Oct 10
when she will be moving towardss the stage meant for us... then will pick her in my arms... eye to eye contact and will make her sit on the chair... that distance of 20 odd steps will be the best part of my marriage and life... and will do this for sure :)
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@donsky14 (5990)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
Yeah I agree, its definitely sweeter if you say it during the moment. I think i'll do that as well, but I'm gonna be thinking of what I'm gonna saying first...like before the wedding day or something. lol...so that I would be able to say the things that I want to say. 
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
I want to say my feelings and vow when we are already in front of the altar but of course i wouldn't want to say anything that will make me sound too nervous and i may say the words grammatically incorrect so i think i'd better memorize it days before the wedding day but of course the words should come from my own feelings. I too hope my soon to be husband will do the same.
@shaggin (74987)
• United States
26 Oct 10
My ex and I went with the traditional wedding vows that the minister had us repeat after him. I was so nervous I went through them so fast. It was really hard to stand up there in front of all those people. The only thing we left out of the traditional marriage vows was "obey". I dont think that should be part of the vows to obey your spouse. If I tell him to jump off a bridge he shouldnt do it just because I've told him to for an extreme example.
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
I believed that i never had this experience. but in my opinion, i'd rather say it in the moment because it shows more passion and commitment to you're lover if it comes from the heart. as for the traditional once, am not sure, but manypeople do tradition as well.
